COLD
I was dragged to hell and back as a kid because I was feminine and fabulous so after a while I started to become anxious and then completely shut down to the world no exceptions and now I have no interest to be me again
I'm essentially a warm person who wants to be there, as much as possible, for the people who are important to me. And those people know that and rely on me.
However, I have a weird hang up about appearing vulnerable which means I often come off as non-emotional because I don't really externally act on things which bother me. This, coupled with my tendency to openly criticize people and things I don't necessarily agree with, tends to make people think of me as cold and kind of rude.
I talk to blue collar men while I'm out around town all the time, and always nice to cashiers and people like that. So I'd say I'm a nice guy. It's a little different at college though because more people are reserved.
I think strangers perceive me as slightly cold. It takes me a long time to trust people enough to be very personal. No one thinks I'm not friendly, though.
Once I'm close to someone, I'd like to think I'm very warm.
I come off as cold to strangers and sometimes I am. I have only a few friends, its hard to break my shell and get to know me and I spend my time wisely, I wont be friends with someone I dont find interesting.
Cold.
I am very shy and quiet irl. It takes time for me to open up to new people. I also need a lot of personal space and time, what has disastrous effects on a few of my relationships.
Mmmm I'm rather cold. I'm not shy, but just not social I love being by myself, and I'll probably die alone
I am a nice person and can have a small talk, but that's about it
so after a while I started to become anxious and then completely shut down to the world no exceptions and now I have no interest to be me again
