And they message you, what's the most ethical thing to do, and the kindest way to let them down?

It's annoying, different people react differently. Some people are like "I would rather you just be upfront and tell me you're not interested in me instead of ignoring me" but then there's also young, insecure gays, whose feelings you would really hurt by saying that.

I hate rejecting people. I feel so guilty/mean. Especially if I don't reply and they go off on a rant about what a **** person I am, and how I'm really judgemental/shallow. I think sex is a really important part of a relationship and it's important that you're attracted to the person you're with.

What does everyone else do?

Block. I swear I'm not a bad person

Start talking about how you're only on Grindr to find new friends to go to cosplay conventions with.

They'll stop talking soon enough.

Bonus points if you use xD and ;D a lot.

Say

"If you don't get your cheesy,funky, stanky, stupid, slouchy ass out my inbox stupid stankin nasty ass hoe"

Works like a charm for me.

If you're out of blocks, you can always just promote your fave. I hear Grindr promo works pretty well

Talk in a different language

I think wait until they're offline and block is good...because then they'll assume you deleted it...ddddd should have included that in the poll options.

true.

And you say you're not an evil person

When I used it I would ignore/block and I didn't feel remotely bad either

Just keep ignoring them It is hassle but works for me after a while and I don't come out as mean.

The thing is that I am always looking for the one. But then there is some that contact me and they look ok but are not the one yet. So I don't want to block them just yet. Because they may be the one. So confusing

I have Grindr Xtra. There's too many gays in Sydney. It's annoying.

But I'm like:

Ignore

but I agree. I forgot about limited blocks and such.

Ignore them winning the poll

I ignore.

Speaking from previous grindr experiences?



Trash if you get a 'kii' from berating other peoples looks then you are a very sad and pathetic individual