To answer your question, it comes naturally to some and for others, they feel they have to act more stereotypical to fit in to what they think society's idea of a gay is.
But wake up and realize that the majority of gay men are not defined by dumbass labels like "masculine" or "feminine." Can people LIVE without getting judged in such a way
"Masc" gays are more annoying. No one curr about sports.
Maybe they like playing sport and keeping fit? Acting like that for a boy is considered natural. Putting on makeup and wigs isn't natural for a boy. I don't judge them and I have a lot of fem friends, just never had the guts to ask them where the whole "feminine" thing comes from. If it comes naturally to them then cool that's fine, but if they put it on, why??
To answer your question, it comes naturally to some and for others, they feel they have to act more stereotypical to fit in to what they think society's idea of a gay is.
But wake up and realize that the majority of gay men are not defined by dumbass labels like "masculine" or "feminine." Can people LIVE without getting judged in such a way
Woah calm down don't go pulling my weave out just yet. I was only asking! No need to get so defensive over a question, it's how people learn.
Maybe they like playing sport and keeping fit? Acting like that for a boy is considered natural. Putting on makeup and wigs isn't natural for a boy. I don't judge them and I have a lot of fem friends, just never had the guts to ask them where the whole "feminine" thing comes from. If it comes naturally to them then cool that's fine, but if they put it on, why??
Masculinity for boys is a social construct. I played with barbies when I was 4 and didn't have any idea what being gay was. What are they teaching you about women/femininity down under?
there will be guys who have it come naturally to them, guys who have it come naturally but go OTT and guys who put it on for whatever reason. I don't understand why guys put on being fam or masc, just be yourself.
This is the 689685694945th thread on this. Why are haters so obsessed? That's just how we are. Not every boy grows up liking sports and dirt. Not every girl grows up liking dolls and dresses.
And quite ironically, as much as it's criticized, it truly is a sign of just how advanced humanity is, that it doesn't have to conform to nature. Your genitalia doesn't have to define you like it did in the stone age/ in the wild.
Ignorant question tbh. Not all gays are feminine. I'm assuming you feel that way, though, because the feminine ones are the only ones you can tell are gay?
don't go pulling my weave out just yet. I was only asking! No need to get so defensive over a question, it's how people learn.
