No, in my country is a nice word and "gay" is more offensive.

Not really, it just feels weird to say. Like the n word.

I hate "homo", tho

Why should it?
Homo = same

So homosexual just means sexuality attracted to the same as you. Which is the true true.

Bye.

An some scientists refer to black people as "Negroid". If someone called you a Negroid how would you feel? I know some girls who get mad when girls refer to them as "females" instead of women or girls.

Well I am negroid aren't I? If you call me a ***** though. That's another story. Just the same way "homo" would be offensive because of the connotation it has amassed not homosexual.

I think its more outdated than offensive, if it is such in a certain context it can be very offensive though.

I hate the term queer and when people use it..

I just call myself a meat flute player.

'i love harry styles'

No, I'm not concerned by it.

I mean as Buddy (I think) said it depends on context. If someone said "you're a filthy homosexual" i would be annoyed but if someone used with with no insulting intentions, why would I or anyone care?

It's dehumanising.
You're acting like the person you're referring to is an 'it' rather than a human being with feelings. Just saying gay would be enough.

The most ideal scenario would be not commenting on the persons sexuality at all.

bettter than Lover tbh.

I don't care, I always assume people who act that way are gay or bi and/or have personal issues and are insecure

No, that is what we are after all. Only in certain contexts.
What does bother me are when people use partner instead of boyfriend or husband.