that I'll always have to be on defensive mode when I'm out with my boyfriend in case a bigot tries to pop off

Monogamy is unnatural

That some people are going to define me automatically because of my sexuality when I come out.

That I probably won't raise kids (which is fine with me, I didn't really want kids).

That not only am I a minority because of my skin colour which I'm okay with ... but I'm a minority within a minority because of my sexuality.