I really don't get it. Like I've had straight crushes, but knew it was never going to happen. I think they need to let the light in and realize that most likely, the celeb etc. is straight.
Yeah I've never envisioned myself with a straight guy, ever. I mean sure, the thought pops up but thoughts about everything can pop up into your head. It's a lost cause and even if there's a chance he's gay it's not worth the energy.
In my opinion it's because we're all self-hating, insecure individuals that detest every stereotype put upon the gay community which of course leads onto this. Therefore to compensate for this, we turn against "gay men" naively believing they all fit these stereotypes "except for ourselves" and therefore lust after straight men who we believe embody the opposite of the gay stereotype, when really we're all just men and specific traits of sexualities are social constructs that we ignorantly continue to believe.