Poll: Would you be in an open marriage? - Page 3

jose168

id be open to it

Attitude

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Originally posted by VyktorJonas

yes, of course, that's how our mentality works
but if you want to have sex with anyone, just be single already
in marriage you dedicate your life to your signficant other

This!!!

Mimie

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Originally posted by swissman

If we were raised in a society that was much more open sexually, that did not place such taboos on being sexual or equate sexual gratification with love, then we would look at closed marriages as being sexual prisons. Instead we see open marriages as being unsafe, overly promiscuous and unloving.

Thot

Pokistic

Yes I will be open, I will love my partner and only him but have sex with other beautiful guys if there is some physical attraction. He can do the same.

Jay Fenty

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Originally posted by swissman

Relationship:

: the way in which two or more people, groups, countries, etc., talk to, behave toward, and deal with each other
: a romantic or sexual friendship between two people
: the way in which two or more people or things are connected

There's nothing about monogamy there. If you look at the third definition, you see that the purpose of of a relationship would simply be to establish a connection. People add exclusivity to it so that they can feel more confident in themselves, but it's really an illusion. If two people decide to be forever connected and yet able to have sex outside of marriage, how is that disgusting? Do you also think divorce is disgusting?

blah blah blah

my opinion is my opinion, if you want an open marriage then go for it, someone like me on ATRL is stopping you ?

ALA

Definitely not. If it works for some couples more power to them.

FAME.

If my husband was like a super rich athlete or something then yeah for the simple fact that I would be getting a lot out of it and they are more than likely going to cheat anyway.

A broke ***** though? Hell no.

Alejandrawrrr

I'm way too jealous / possessive for that, plus I'm not that crazy about sex to even want to have it with multiple people tbh. So no on both counts

IBeMe

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Originally posted by Alejandrawrrr

I'm way too jealous / possessive for that, plus I'm not that crazy about sex to even want to have it with multiple people tbh. So no on both counts

I wont lie im crazy about sx BUT I think the most romantic thing is to do that act daily twice or w/e with the person you actually LOVE. to give yourself completely emotionally and physically to you're partner is probably the most sexiest, hottest thing ever.

for me monogamy is a turn on lol