|
Discussion: Is life boring as a boy?
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 5,994
|
Yeah kind of, but girls have it way way more tougher then us.
Their lifestyle just seems exhausting, like their whole lives is just one schedule.
|
|
|
Member Since: 5/21/2009
Posts: 5,545
|
Quote:
Originally posted by IBeMe
oh the links opened up now.
you must have read my line wrong: I said "threat" to womens lives.
you are searching on "diseases and illnesses that kill the most amount of women per year". when you put into consideration the amount of life threatening beatings women get AROUND the world and the amount of rapes carried every year, and the amount of murders on women, sex trade, forced prostitution, child brides, sex slaves etc... I think you can agree that this pushes men right on the top of the ladder in terms of most dangerous THREAT to a womans life.
|
Homocide is included, they just didn't make any main top 10 lists.
|
|
|
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 30,642
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Erik
Homocide is included, they just didn't make any main top 10 lists.
|
once again it is only emphasizing "homicide" I am talking about ALL criminal acts that threaten the life of a woman not just murder. are oyu telling me that rape, sex slave, child brides ect is not life threatening? and not mostly if not 99.9% of the time conducted by men? come on now
|
|
|
Member Since: 8/24/2008
Posts: 35,091
|
I would love to know what its like to have an orgasm as a woman.
|
|
|
Member Since: 2/2/2014
Posts: 6,765
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Erik
|
Just look at the percentage of spousal abuse, rape, and murder cases. Guess who are committing them? Guess who are most victims of the 2 former?
To answer your question about the suicide rates, I wish there were more studies done because its unfortunate that so many men commit suicide. I'm assuming its due to the pressure men face on being masculine, successful etc and not having an outlet for their emotions. That can be a leading cause of depression, and ultimately suicide in many people when they don't know how to express themselves or handle their issues. I doubt life is boring though, I think its easier being a boy anywhere in the world
|
|
|
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 30,642
|
Quote:
Originally posted by KareBear
Just look at the percentage of spousal abuse, rape, and murder cases. Guess who are committing them? Guess who are most victims of the 2 former?
To answer your question about the suicide rates, I wish there were more studies done because its unfortunate that so many men commit suicide. I'm assuming its due to the pressure men face on being masculine, successful etc and not having an outlet for their emotions. That can be a leading cause of depression, and ultimately suicide in many people when they don't know how to express themselves or handle their issues. I doubt life is boring though, I think its easier being a boy anywhere in the world
|
thank you much?
and ya it really is mainly based on social pressure and expectations as well as a lack of "emotional outlets" due to the whole "manly" persona men must put on daily. it sort of sucks in that aspect but ya lol life right? haha
|
|
|
Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 15,736
|
I have a lot of females in my family, let me tell you they do not have it easier.
I like being a boy and masculinity/ego is becoming less a of a thing with each new generation, so I don't mind. Admittedly when I was younger I hated the expectations of being a guy but I think my family get the message now that I'll do whatever the f*** I want regardless of how feminine it may be
|
|
|
Member Since: 6/15/2011
Posts: 10,115
|
I still always wonder what is the exact reason why lesbians/ manly girls/ tomboy are a lot more accepted by society??? If I am a lesbian I would just go out there and kiss a girl in front of people without being heavily criticised. I cant do it now as a gay guy
|
|
|
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 30,642
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Pandantic
I have a lot of females in my family, let me tell you they do not have it easier.
I like being a boy and masculinity/ego is becoming less a of a thing with each new generation, so I don't mind. Admittedly when I was younger I hated the expectations of being a guy but I think my family get the message now that I'll do whatever the f*** I want regardless of how feminine it may be
|
tbh my post isnt about who has it easier , itsm ore like who has the most fun.
but I have to agree with you , theexpectations seem to be shrinking in some part of the world. but as much as it shrinks, to some families the expectations of masculinity grows higher because of the shrinking "machoness" around theworld. like for exemple my friends mom expects of him so much more then what is normally expected because he is a boy and because she is concerned that the world opening up to being gay isdangerous to his machoness..if that makes any sense lol? so evn him wearing some pink or w/e is seen as terrible
|
|
|
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 30,642
|
Quote:
Originally posted by duybeeGAshantiGA
I still always wonder what is the exact reason why lesbians/ manly girls/ tomboy are a lot more accepted by society??? If I am a lesbian I would just go out there and kiss a girl in front of people without being heavily criticised. I cant do it now as a gay guy
|
THIS!! gay guys we feel criminalized. we are demonized in society. If you even hold someones hand publicly you feel like your life may be at risk, you feel like you are disgusting everyone around you, you often get ppl saying horrible things to you...I once held this guys hand in public and after a minute he couldn't take the pressure and took his hand off of mine...do you know how hard that hurts? when you like someone yet you cannot express it because you feel disgusting. you feel horrible for being yourself. you need to overthinlk you're every move...its so tiring. I know ppl say "what? just forget about the haters nd WORK but most ppl arnt that strong...most ppl cant take daily insults, daily grunts of disgust, daily eye rolls, daily laughs, daily threats, daily hate...) ugh
|
|
|
Member Since: 6/15/2011
Posts: 10,115
|
Quote:
Originally posted by IBeMe
THIS!! gay guys we feel criminalized. we are demonized in society. If you even hold someones hand publicly you feel like your life may be at risk, you feel like you are disgusting everyone around you, you often get ppl saying horrible things to you...I once held this guys hand in public and after a minute he couldn't take the pressure and took his hand off of mine...do you know how hard that hurts? when you like someone yet you cannot express it because you feel disgusting. you feel horrible for being yourself. you need to overthinlk you're every move...its so tiring. I know ppl say "what? just forget about the haters nd WORK but most ppl arnt that strong...most ppl cant take daily insults, daily grunts of disgust, daily eye rolls, daily laughs, daily threats, daily hate...) ugh
|
I know right.. sometimes by just saying "ignore people, live your own life" is just not enough. We are human. Being strong all the time makes it so exhausting. What a sad life that I am living. I cant do whatever I want even without affecting other people. Why they are so bothered by us
|
|
|
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 30,642
|
Quote:
Originally posted by duybeeGAshantiGA
I know right.. sometimes by just saying "ignore people, live your own life" is just not enough. We are human. Being strong all the time makes it so exhausting. What a sad life that I am living. I cant do whatever I want even without affecting other people. Why they are so bothered by us
|
hahah ya it sucks being gay in 2014... i just wish a better life for the ppl of the future ...but ya enough moaning about how bad life is for us gays lol! i mean at least we al look super hot lol
|
|
|
Member Since: 3/18/2012
Posts: 15,751
|
Not at all. You're just a freak weirdo who wants to be a woman.
|
|
|
Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 40,566
|
Nah, I hate period pain.
I hate getting hassled on by the street.
I am terrified of walking alone.
I am horrified of rape.
Boys education is put before mine.
I am scared of giving birth.
I am often stereotyped as either a **** or a virgin.
But I don't believe just because you're a male means you have it easier. Men put up with the struggle of custody rights, expressing emotions without being labelled etc
|
|
|
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 12,760
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 12/2/2011
Posts: 52,765
|
Yes and No
|
|
|
Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 40,566
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Hey Gurl Hey
Not at all. You're just a freak weirdo who wants to be a woman.
|
1) What his point of view is saying, is that girls have it easier & he wishes the same for both genders. If he did not, he wouldn't say 'I wish I was a girl?!'
2) Just because someone would prefer to be a girl does NOT make them a freak weirdo. How very uneducated, ignorant & trans phobic of you.
|
|
|
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 30,642
|
Quote:
Originally posted by Hey Gurl Hey
Not at all. You're just a freak weirdo who wants to be a woman.
|
this is literally the meanest thing I have ever read on here... your a horrible person.
and I am glad i'm a boy, im just asking opinions of ppl. and if someone wants to become physically a girl because mentally they are already a girl dosnt mean they are "freaks" if anything your the freak. your heart is evil.
|
|
|
Member Since: 8/4/2012
Posts: 37,267
|
|
|
|
Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 19,723
|
Well women have much bigger sexual capabilities than men, so despite all the horrible things we have to go through as women, the fact that we can have multiple orgasms and men can't is pretty great
|
|
|
|
|