What I mean is, and my case, where I live, there's not really a gay scene, therefore, I basically chat with gay guys via apps, like Bender

, I dont know if it exists there but it's kinda like grindr but less trashy. Anyways, if you start talking to a guy that attracts you, and he shows some interest back but not much, for example, he doesnt really talk to you unless you talk to him first, do you still keep trying to talk and try to meet him in real life to see how things work out or do you move on to another one?