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Originally posted by leon86
You're so vapid 
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If by vapid you mean shallow then yeah, definitely, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Sex is a really important part of relationships and for most people it's important to be sexually attracted to their partner. Before we even get to know the people we date, we judge them for how they look and assess whether or not we're attracted to them, and whether or not we can do better. I don't think there's anything wrong with acknowledging that. I mean how many people here can say they've been messaged by a morbidly obese, 58 year old man on grindr and said "you know what, he might have a great personality! I'm going to go on a date with him!"
Looks aren't the
only thing that matters, but being sexually attracted to someone is really, really important, and I don't think recognising that makes you a bad person, nor does it make you vapid/boring.