Mostly of men are basic, and what it matters to them is the look. Straight or Gay, what matters to most of them is how big is your ass, your dick, your **** if they straight, how tall, how :blah:
So men in general should stop looking only the outside and they should care more about the inside.
True. It sounds cliche, but for me personally, personality >>> looks, and it's not even close. I've had many crushes on guys who weren't necessarily handsome/fit, but who could make me laugh and were sweet, bonus points for being able to hold a meaningful/intellectual conversation. A 5 who is funny, caring and thoughtful > a vain/shallow 10 (I know a few of these irl, and they do nothing for me)
And besides, looks fade... And even before they do, you'll likely find someone more physically attractive, or the looks in your partner that once drove you wild will lose their effects somewhat.
I'm superficial on those apps, but if I meet people in rl i'm not like that at all. Would say my standards are on point physically. But I want someone that has depth as well and that combination is pretty hard to find. .
spill the truth please
