It's completely different to just ask someone randomly then for someone to actually experience domestic abuse.
As on average, a woman goes back to her abuser 7/8 times.
So it's easier to just say 'no' than to actually see your abuser different from other people.
It's not a simple yes or no. You can't really understand unless you're in a situation like that. Not speaking in just terms of a romantic relationship, it can be really hard to reconcile the fact that someone who provides for you and takes care of you could also beat you senseless then turn around and continue the status quo. It's such a mind game.
It's completely different to just ask someone randomly then for someone to actually experience domestic abuse.
As on average, a woman goes back to her abuser 7/8 times.
So it's easier to just say 'no' than to actually see your abuser different from other people.
Exactly, love can sometimes be like a voluntary imprisonment, where one is subdued by their emotions and dependency on another.
Exactly, love can sometimes be like a voluntary imprisonment, where one is subdued by their emotions and dependency on another.
This is not about emotions. This is about control and clever thinking. I'd rather take the risk to not feel the emotions I had felt before the abuse than go back to that person, because they wouldn't love me.
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And no, I wouldn't, I'd be heartbroken but I don't want to be a victim.
