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Discussion: Archived: Random Thoughts (#3)
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Originally posted by Gabegabe
Because you're insinuating he's not bi and that he's actually gay and yet you're bi but don't believe he's bi so how can you and us believe you're really bi?
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what kind of riddle
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
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Originally posted by jayyyxtee
Well letz talk about this how do you know people don't like you?
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i don't know for sure, but it seems like no one's that interested and people don't spend that much time around me. not only that, but it feels like i either annoy or bore people whenever i talk to them. overall nobody seems to show that much connection to me. and those are the people that actually talk to me a few times, not even thinking of the ones that just totally dislike me or don't talk to me more than once
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Originally posted by accelgors
i don't know for sure, but it seems like no one's that interested and people don't spend that much time around me. not only that, but it feels like i either annoy or bore people whenever i talk to them. overall nobody seems to show that much connection to me. and those are the people that actually talk to me a few times, not even thinking of the ones that just totally dislike me or don't talk to me more than once
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ok well, why do you think people don't like you? Because this could all be in your head.
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Originally posted by accelgors
i don't know for sure, but it seems like no one's that interested and people don't spend that much time around me. not only that, but it feels like i either annoy or bore people whenever i talk to them. overall nobody seems to show that much connection to me. and those are the people that actually talk to me a few times, not even thinking of the ones that just totally dislike me or don't talk to me more than once
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How old are you?
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
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Originally posted by Guernica
ok well, why do you think people don't like you? Because this could all be in your head.
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i mean, i usually assume someone doesn't like me when they don't respond with things other than "yeah" and stuff like that when i try to talk to them and don't pursue conversation with me if i stop talking to them. and actually that's a big part, it feels like people aren't interested because they don't make an effort to talk to me more. and i can tell when people don't laugh at all at the jokes i tell or show any real reaction to what i say, or they end the conversation really quickly after it starts. it's just things like that that give off the feeling that they don't like me or at the very least that no one's especially interested in me, and if someone's not even that interested in you how far can you take a friendship with them even if they don't totally dislike you?
/kinda rambling
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ATRL Senior Member
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Fireproof is literally so. Good.
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Member Since: 10/1/2011
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Originally posted by accelgors
i mean, i usually assume someone doesn't like me when they don't respond with things other than "yeah" and stuff like that when i try to talk to them and don't pursue conversation with me if i stop talking to them. and actually that's a big part, it feels like people aren't interested because they don't make an effort to talk to me more. and i can tell when people don't laugh at all at the jokes i tell or show any real reaction to what i say, or they end the conversation really quickly after it starts. it's just things like that that give off the feeling that they don't like me or at the very least that no one's especially interested in me, and if someone's not even that interested in you how far can you take a friendship with them even if they don't totally dislike you?
/kinda rambling
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Give yourself some credit buddy at least you're trying and putting yourself out there 
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Accelgors, it seems like you're just currently stuck in a crappy environment atm, around people who perhaps aren't entirely on your wavelength. Like, I don't have any reason to believe that you're an unlikeable person, from what I've seen on this site. Don't go thinking that you're unlikeable person your whole life
Sorry, that probably isn't helpful, since I don't know what your situation is in much detail 
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Member Since: 5/7/2012
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Originally posted by accelgors
i mean, i usually assume someone doesn't like me when they don't respond with things other than "yeah" and stuff like that when i try to talk to them and don't pursue conversation with me if i stop talking to them. and actually that's a big part, it feels like people aren't interested because they don't make an effort to talk to me more. and i can tell when people don't laugh at all at the jokes i tell or show any real reaction to what i say, or they end the conversation really quickly after it starts. it's just things like that that give off the feeling that they don't like me or at the very least that no one's especially interested in me, and if someone's not even that interested in you how far can you take a friendship with them even if they don't totally dislike you?
/kinda rambling
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mrmm I see the problem. I used to have the mentality that "if someone wants to talk to me, they will" and that isn't true. Friendship is a two way street. You can't just expect the other person to put in all the effort. If you stop talking to them, then they'll probably assume that you did that because YOU don't want to talk to them, and they don't want to bother you. Also the way that you look plays a big part in it, if you look unapproachable then people won't approach you. Do you appear friendly? Do you smile or do you sit there with a blank expression on your face? What kind of things are you talking about? You need to talk about something that is interesting to the other person, and that an actual full fledged conversation can come out of. If you're talking about something simple like the weather than that convo probably won't last for longer then 5 minutes. A person can only give you so much, they can't make something out of nothing which could explain the short responses. If you're talking about something that you like, but they don't like, that will cause a lack of connection as well.
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
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^ thanks for the help and advice everyone, i appreciate it, i've been pretty down about this recently and it's nice of you guys to help
and that's true that i probably do look difficult to approach. i space out a lot so i probably look either totally distracted or sad. all of that stuff is good to consider. it's just really hard to make friends, honestly, and it gets pretty discouraging sometimes, especially since it seems like other people make them a lot more easily than me. i won't stop trying just yet
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Originally posted by Retro
Fireproof is literally so. Good.
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Right? I've racking up shameless plays like crazy. 
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I'm tired of usually giving more than I get back from people. 
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yasss Disney Replay playing Hannah Montana right now on Disney Channel.  then Sonny With A Chance next and Phil of the Future at 3. 
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Omg someone just followed me that was a 1D/1975/5SOS stan and asked for a follow back... I blocked him immediately. 
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Originally posted by Remmy
Omg someone just followed me that was a 1D/1975/5SOS stan and asked for a follow back... I blocked him immediately. 
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Like you can talk with that sig
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Originally posted by Pandantic
Like you can talk with that sig
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I blocked him because he asked for a follow back... read, please.
EDIT: lol at you trying to trash my sig when plenty of the artists are on your last.fm~
2. Gaga: 1,575
39. Taylor Swift: 226
165. Lea Michele: 7
71. Paramore: 69
12. Ke$ha: 718
111. Icona Pop: 26
32. Katy Perry: 341
83. Avril Lavigne: 53
23. Miley Cyrus: 421
70. Kanye West: 70
15. Rihanna: 673
92. 5SOS: 42
14. Britney Spears: 683
63. Chris Brown: 87
46. Foxes: 186
Stop trying to be cool and act like you're above anything.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Remmy
yasss Disney Replay playing Hannah Montana right now on Disney Channel.  then Sonny With A Chance next and Phil of the Future at 3. 
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wish Canada had Disney Channel; every time someone mentions this Disney Replay my heart breaks a bit.
I could/do download the episodes/watch on YT, but it's not the same 
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ATRL Contributor
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Originally posted by Remmy
yasss Disney Replay playing Hannah Montana right now on Disney Channel.  then Sonny With A Chance next and Phil of the Future at 3. 
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Ricky Ullman 
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Member Since: 5/7/2012
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Member Since: 8/2/2012
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Originally posted by Remmy
I blocked him because he asked for a follow back... read, please.
EDIT: lol at you trying to trash my sig when plenty of the artists are on your last.fm~
2. Gaga: 1,575
39. Taylor Swift: 226
165. Lea Michele: 7
71. Paramore: 69
12. Ke$ha: 718
111. Icona Pop: 26
32. Katy Perry: 341
83. Avril Lavigne: 53
23. Miley Cyrus: 421
70. Kanye West: 70
15. Rihanna: 673
92. 5SOS: 42
14. Britney Spears: 683
63. Chris Brown: 87
46. Foxes: 186
Stop trying to be cool and act like you're above anything.
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Get ha Gatsby!
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