She's not okay. Why do you think it takes such a long time for abuse victims to finally get the courage to leave? He has a hold on her, mentally. He says it's a mistake and she believes it. He says he loves her and she believes it. This is how abuse victims act. They try to pretend like everything is just fine even when it clearly isn't. I've seen this a million times. Let's just pray somebody gets through to her and gets her away from this man since she cannot do it herself.