I was talking to a 'friend' earlier today and he told me he was horny etc. He then asked for me to 'talk dirty' to him, I quickly told him I had a boyfriend but he still persisted and tried to convince me it wasn't cheating and my boyfriend wouldn't mind, he just wanted me to 'help out'

I obviously didn't go through with it and find it quite disgusting that he carried on after finding out I had a boyfriend, personally I wouldn't call it cheating per-se, but I know I wouldn't want my partner to sext or send nudes or anything like that to someone else, so I would never do it myself.

What do you think? Do you class it as cheating? Or would you be unbothered by your boy/girlfriend sexting another person?

How would it not be?

People are something else these days.

YES! YES it is.

Of course it is If you're in a monogamous relationship with somebody, you shouldn't be doing or saying anything sexual with anybody else.

I dunno if it's cheating in the most literal sense of the word, but it certainly would hurt me to find out that my boyfriend had been sexting someone else even if nothing had happened beyond that.

Yes Tha ****

Yes it is. Even if you think about cheating through sexting, those ideas are in your head. It's cheating.

Only if pics are exchanged.

Otherwise, not at all.

Duh of course it is

Of course. Why would you sext another person if you are in a relationship with me? It's such a bad intention even if you didn't have sex.

Yes

Yes, cheating is giving up your loyalty.

Yes. It's the reason for most of my breakups.

Yes...

Completely agree. That "friend" of the OP's is something else.

Of course it is. A relationship is never purely physical. So cheating is not exclusive to only physical actions

Yes!

Yep.

Yes.