Lots of "masc" gays aren't even masc, they're deluded into thinking they are so they can fit the social norm. Honestly, i'd rather date a fem guy who is confident in himself and knows who he is.
Unfortunately, it does. People have an addiction to masculinity.
I personally lean more towards guys who have a balance of both masculine/feminine qualities; over-masculine/feminine guys aren't my cup of tea.
However, the "feminine" shaming. along with other types, that come from within the gay community is horrid and needs to be stopped. You want somebody to accept you for who you are and you get offended when they don't, yet we as a community don't even have respect for ourselves as individual people and as a whole and find that okay? Hypocrisy.
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And I agree with your second sentence. I'm not here for over-masculine guys. Masculinity is hot to a certain point. At the end of the day, it's all about the person. If I like the person then it really doesn't matter to me if the person is masculine or feminine. It's all about the balance.
Lots of "masc" gays aren't even masc, they're deluded into thinking they are so they can fit the social norm. Honestly, i'd rather date a fem guy who is confident in himself and knows who he is.
I feel like we're reaching a point where the gay community is more backwards and judgmental than general society. I'll take that over the other way around though.
Although femininity in guys has been embraced by majority(minus ATRL and other regions) it still seems like Masculinity has the upper hand do you agree or not?
Guess what? No matter how "Masc" you act you still want to put dicks in your mouth and for that society will always consider you a ****.
This logic.
You can have masculine women who are not lesbians... why not masculine men who are gay / bisexual?
Not all gay / bi men are obvious... being masculine or feminine isn't really a choice, just like sexuality. You're either one or the other, or somewhere in between. Of course you can fake / pretend to be more of a certain way than the other, but it's pretty clear whether someone's actually masc or just faking it because they're anti-fem.
I need to stop doing it but when i see feminine flamboyant gays i get turned off and its sad i have a lot of internal homophobia to work on. But overly masculine bro lets catch a football types are annoying too me i like a balance of masculine features and feminine features.
and maybe they want to give in lieu of receiving...