As a feminine gay guy, do you feel at times or wish to be more naturally masculine ? To feel more naturally masculine and avoid confrontations where you got laughed at or questioned for you sexuality or your attire from people ? Or to like certain activities or hobbies ? Or Even appeal to other guys who admire masculine gays ? Share your thoughts Atrl Sistrens.
Not necessary. I'm trying to imply that masculine guys get less judged by gays and non gay people.
Yes, I know what you meant and what you are saying is correct. I'm just saying that people shouldn't worry about being judged. Do you. Life is too short.
That implies that being masculine > being feminine. I think everyone should just be happy with how they are.
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Feminine gay and I wouldn't have it any other way. If you don't like me well that's your issue, not mine. Fem shaming is prominent in the gay community, so many poor insecure souls
Yes, I know what you meant and I what you are saying is correct. I'm just saying that people shouldn't worry about being judged. Do you. Life is too short.
Exactly this. Why bother hating yourself and how you are instead of loving yourself and being happy that somebody somewhere will love you for you and nothing else? We're all dying at some random point of our life so just keep remaining happy with what we've got - and if somebody wants to change, then they can because that's their personal choice but we should all be happy no matter what.
I absolutely agree about the "be who you are" thoughts but i will not lie and say that if i could become more masculine, no doubt i would but I just can't go against nature you know.
Not always true. Some people aren't happy with who they are. Others strive to change who they are. Yet more face adversity from others because of who they are.
"Just being yourself" is no guarantee of happiness.
