.

Constant discrimination and fear of being yourself, at least in my case.

Worrying about what you eat before sex.

Falling in love with straights on accident.

No children in your house, which leads to more money.

Hairy, muscled legs

Oh, I'm so silly, we're talking about the negatives? Then people judging you just because **** you.
And not being able to have an openly gay life. That's the way it is in my area, everyone has to be heterosexual.

This.

The only thing I can think of, other than discrimination, is not being able to have a baby.

Discrimination, obviously.

My main one is it's hard to culturally identify with other gay men because of the huge disparity of experiences that exist across the different generations. That's a very first-world gay problem tho

Within the gay community, constantly being body shamed to have perfectly thin and muscular features.

Cons not Pros

There's always adoption.... and just because your gay doesn't mean you can't get Hairy, Musled Legs. Being gay doesn't change how males develop

On a serious note, I would say discrimination and fear of living openly.

These. And the constant "I don't have a problem with gays BUT *insert stupid comment here*"

This. Also not being able to eat before the act. and having to maintain your self constantly.

having to deal with creepy old men in the gay clubs who try their hardest to take you back to theirs

wanting a long term relationship but majority of gays don't understand what that means

getting told im a "fake gay" because im not flamboyant

getting called homophobic because i don't agree with gay pride lmao