I've been in a relationship for 8.5 years now, we've been living together for about 6 years, have two dogs, etc etc.

I'm still very much in love with him and no I'm not jealous. I think after all this years it would be crazy.

I totally trust him. We tell each other everything. It's beautiful to be able to be totally open to this one person.

How did we stay together for so long? I don't know tbh. My advise is: Always be honest. Don't tell your partner that everything is ok when it's not. It will come back and haunt you.

I rather have a 5 min discussion and settle everything out right then, than have 1000 of things to say when I explode.

I told someone I was in love with them last week and it went the most horrible way imagined.
After about 10 shots of tequila I'm now on the "**** Love, Gimme Diamonds" train so it's all good.

Have you ever been in love? Yes.
Are you in a relationship? No.
Is love overrated/underrated? It's fine the way it is now, neither overrated nor underrated.
Are you jealous/insecure? Yes, I think it's because I've never met anyone that would make me completely trust them.

I've only been in one relationship, three years ago. It lasted for three months, even though
I had been crushing on him way longer than that and we were like best friends. I feel like I
was pretty much in love with him, but I also feel like the next time I fall in love I'm gonna realize
that what I felt before wasn't really love, idk. He left a mark on me.

Originally posted by KillingYourCareer Have you ever been in love? No, but I've had a few crushes Are you in a relationship? No, I don't want one Is love overrated/underrated? Overrated. As Jessica Simpson sings, "I don't need someone to complete me, I complete myself. Nobody's got to belong to somebody else". When I had a relationship, I didn't feel free to talk to new people without feeling guilty and knowing I didn't have to flirt when I'm very flirty. I felt like I was in a cage. Are you jealous/insecure? Very jealous

Originally posted by ivi I've been in a relationship for 8.5 years now, we've been living together for about 6 years, have two dogs, etc etc. I'm still very much in love with him and no I'm not jealous. I think after all this years it would be crazy. I totally trust him. We tell each other everything. It's beautiful to be able to be totally open to this one person. How did we stay together for so long? I don't know tbh. My advise is: Always be honest. Don't tell your partner that everything is ok when it's not. It will come back and haunt you. I rather have a 5 min discussion and settle everything out right then, than have 1000 of things to say when I explode.

Originally posted by ivi I've been in a relationship for 8.5 years now, we've been living together for about 6 years, have two dogs, etc etc. I'm still very much in love with him and no I'm not jealous. I think after all this years it would be crazy. I totally trust him. We tell each other everything. It's beautiful to be able to be totally open to this one person. How did we stay together for so long? I don't know tbh. My advise is: Always be honest. Don't tell your partner that everything is ok when it's not. It will come back and haunt you. I rather have a 5 min discussion and settle everything out right then, than have 1000 of things to say when I explode.

I have a huge crush on a guy but I feel to worthless to talk to him