No And it's DEAD wrong for someone to pick on someone else because they are feminine. Let them be, they aren't bothering anybody and the deserve the space you do as well. That's one thing that I REALLY cannot stand, especially when I see other gays picking on another because they're more feminine.
Depends. I dont think anythings wrong with it but its not exactly my cup of tea.
Also some people do it just for attention. Do you really believe a man who goes to idk Wal-Mart in 10-inch platform heels is doing it "just to be himself"
Thats not really for you to decide. If the man feels like he wants to wear heels then that is his decision.