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Originally posted by Latch
Is it really just your nature or is the result of social conditioning?
Do you really think you came out of the womb with lust and a desire to objectify some nude bodies on your mind?
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It doesnt really matter at this point. Ofc I would be accustomed to nudity and it would be probably didnt do too much for me. But you cant take the years of civilisation we´ve been through. If you wanted everything to be natural, with no restrictions, we would be at the level of free, wild animals.
Even for babies it is the basic instinct to do pleasurable things which make them feel good. Freud calls it oral, anal and other stadiums of development. They get pleasure from touching their lips and anal region. But its done because of the high sensitivity in these areas, not from sexual desire itself. The true sexual desire comes in pubescence with the re-found activity of secretory cells in gonads. And that just how human (and animal) body works. You get excited when you see young, beautiful body of other sex (or the same sex). But the development of sexual centres in brain is still a lot of mistery and in minor cases it can asexual.
Yes what is considered hot, sexual attractive (=what is sexualised) is pretty influenced by the culture. But on the other hand it brings some needy restrictions, because you wouldnt want humans to copulate anytime they feel sexual needs and they see opposite (or other) sex. Especially when human reproducing ability is not seasonal (like many animal kinds) but its cohesive.