On this website, people constantly try and drag 'bottoms' in unrelated posts. Mostly because probably bottoms are associated with femininity and that's considered 'less'. Do you think it's wrong? Plus, polls on here show that most people on here are versatile, which means you're kind of half a bottom anyway.
it is wrong but look at society - there is still need for femism . tbh , i think thats where homophobia roots from - that people (mainly men) think its demeaning to be a women > i.e how its okay if a girl dresses in 'manly' clothes but its wrong if a guy dresses in 'girly' clothes
^IMO . just a short summary - dont wanna write the essay in my head
I tell my bf about this all the time. Whenever he sees a guy that's fem he'll talk **** about them. We have got into arguments because I have to explain to him at the end of the day both y'all gay so don't look down on them because they're fem. Fem shaming while you're in the closet is so hypocritical, & he always responds like, "Is my talking hurting anyone" I feel as though if we shams people within our own community people outside the community will continue to do so.
P.S I don't date feminine men, but I don't think we should shame them
It's wrong. I do think, however, that many people associate fem gay men with a lot of the negative characteristics - being vapid, shallow, catty, and obnoxious.
Yes, i'ts wrong I actually did that in past, but than God we all change.
But I feel that a lot of gays behave in a certain way because as gay you should do it (Not everyone, I know a lot of REALLY REALLY feminine boys gay, bi and straights, and you know they were always like that, and that's normal and I really don't give a ****), and the same goes for those bears that says (I'm not like the other gays, I behave like a real men. **** you, a ''fem'' gay is a men as much as you)
It's wrong. I do think, however, that many people associate fem gay men with a lot of the negative characteristics - being vapid, shallow, catty, and obnoxious.
for sooooo many reasons.
