because people use you, don't feel bad for it, and continue to do it

and you're too nice to say anything about it

than at one point you're like wtf am i so nice for

but you keep doing it

Not at all. Just remember and live be the old saying, "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."

I try to be nice but the natural bitches bring me down.

It's not.

The problem is people are so sensitive that they see someone disagreeing with their opinion as a "hater" or a "troll" who is trying to hurt their feelings. People on here don't respect the validity of others' opinions simply for the fact that they differ from their own.

From what I can see at my school (basically the only type of socialization that I have) if you're the nice guy/girl people will only talk to you when they need something (sometimes not even reasonable favors and if you don't accept you're the shittiest person ever ) and no one really cares for your opinion

And that's how I ended up being a catty gay don't judge

It's not, it actually takes more effort to be mean than to be nice. People that are mean all the time make a conscious decision every day when they wake up to be mean, and then they go and waste all their energy on doing and saying mean things, and it's incredibly stupid and if they're gonna live their life like that well than that just tells me that they're stupid