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Originally posted by Alystar
My ex used to that and it used to bring me down. Like check his hott looking guy, or he is so handsome. I'm like you can look but not make comments like that. **** guys.
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I used to be like that with my ex but I was young and insecure and it was my first relationship. Now that I'm older I realise it's completely normal. You can be in a monogamous relationship with someone and choose to sleep with only them but you will still be attracted to other people. People can't just turn that off and to try and control your partner and say "you can't even look" is controlling and will only damage the relationship.
And no, he doesn't because he doesn't exist. I'm single. I could not think of anything worse than being a relationship right now
Not to get all "single and loving it
" but I genuinely am single and loving it
I get to lie in bed and watch Game of Thrones all day/night and I don't have to be anywhere or check in with anyone or put effort into the relationship. That's the thing that people don't tell you about relationships. They require so much effort
