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Discussion: Ever liked someone straight but 99% sure they in the closet
Member Since: 3/8/2014
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Originally posted by private radio
Mess. SAME 
lmao what if he's gay/bi and actually a bottom |
I can do it big
I can do it long
I can do whenever or however you want
I can do it up and down
I can do it circles
To him I'm a gymnist
This ring is my circus
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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To be honest yes. Freshman through senior year I had a crush on a guy named kevin and everyone knew it and he did too but didn't care and i flirted with him and told him certain parts i would love to enjoy. And he still didn't stop me and nowadays he's liking my selfies.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Yes, a female friend and I even used to joke telling each other "there goes your boyfriend hihihihi" until one day we saw him kissing a ****ing skinny ass blonde ass skank ass bitch like ****ing excuse me?????
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Member Since: 2/4/2014
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The fact that you can't know if someone's straight or not is because of heteronormativity. Some closetted gay/bi men create this sort of illusion, this sort of behavior, to cover the fact. Some think that after making out or having sex with their "bro" friends can still be straight or something. Heteronormativity is very dangerous. If you like someone, say it to him clearly and raw, make sure to tell that to him at home. If he is in fact closetted, this sort of isolated environment will prove to be good. If he's straight, he will respond very indifferent, may talk this out with you but won't use violence, if let's say HE DOES, you can report his ass to the police, because you haven't sexually assaulted him or anything, you suggested it. So no fear my friend. Take some deep breathe then go.
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Member Since: 9/12/2012
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Yes, ****ing bum.
I couldn't escape his presence for a good 3 years.
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Member Since: 4/4/2014
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Originally posted by Darkroth
The fact that you can't know if someone's straight or not is because of heteronormativity. Some closetted gay/bi men create this sort of illusion, this sort of behavior, to cover the fact. Some think that after making out or having sex with their "bro" friends can still be straight or something. Heteronormativity is very dangerous. If you like someone, say it to him clearly and raw, make sure to tell that to him at home. If he is in fact closetted, this sort of isolated environment will prove to be good. If he's straight, he will respond very indifferent, may talk this out with you but won't use violence, if let's say HE DOES, you can report his ass to the police, because you haven't sexually assaulted him or anything, you suggested it. So no fear my friend. Take some deep breathe then go.
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Member Since: 2/4/2014
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Originally posted by Gazing Ball
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Member Since: 8/10/2012
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Yeah, I met this guy that was a friend of another friend and he was so cute and all of my friends kept telling me that he is gay but he wasn't/denied it. Goodbye my almost lover tbh.
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Member Since: 2/4/2014
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Originally posted by ChapelHooker
Yeah, I met this guy that was a friend of another friend and he was so cute and all of my friends kept telling me that he is gay but he wasn't/denied it. Goodbye my almost lover tbh.
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Ever thought about the fact that he may be gay/bi but he hates a public-open atmosphere? 
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Yes, I have a crush on this guy at work and he is straight as hell - but still, he's so sweet to me. He even calls me "my liege", I can't deal. Sometimes, I think he's into me but then he talks about a girl being hot and I'm like, can't you just please be BI? SMH
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Member Since: 6/25/2012
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Please refer to the last 6 years of my life
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Yesss, a new coworker I have who's super cute was a lax bro in high school and talks about how hot girls are, but lowkey told my friend when they were working together that he wants a gay friend. And he's recently started to straighten his hair, and he doesn't have a girlfriend yet is super gorgeous. It just doesn't add up 
And maybe it's just me but he seems to bend over a lot when we work together
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Obsession
Yes, I have a crush on this guy at work and he is straight as hell - but still, he's so sweet to me. He even calls me "my liege", I can't deal. Sometimes, I think he's into me but then he talks about a girl being hot and I'm like, can't you just please be BI? SMH
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Wait not my story almost completely matching yours 
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Member Since: 3/13/2012
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Originally posted by BoyLikeYouSuxx
Yesss, a new coworker I have who's super cute was a lax bro in high school and talks about how hot girls are, but lowkey told my friend when they were working together that he wants a gay friend. And he's recently started to straighten his hair, and he doesn't have a girlfriend yet is super gorgeous. It just doesn't add up
And maybe it's just me but he seems to bend over a lot when we work together |
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Originally posted by Darkroth
Ever thought about the fact that he may be gay/bi but he hates a public-open atmosphere? |
But that is what he is saying sis. Not exactly discussing whether why someone hates a public-open atmosphere or they're like that bec of heteronormativity. We can't change them. It's simply just... liking someone who is in denial, even to just the both of you when all the signs are there.
I agree on your post tho http://atrl.net/forums/showthread.ph...8#post22456658
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Member Since: 2/16/2012
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Originally posted by Alystar
The guy that I know from uni I have bit of a fan boy crush on gets me confusing for the most parts he seems straight even though my gaydar is confused that he might be gay or bi. He likes girls and stalks girls and talks about plowing woman but he slightly has gay teasers which are for me possible signs of being gay/bi . For example, he would eat from my food or drink from my drink even though he doesn't mind someone drinking from his. Secretly, I want him to be gay so I can snatch that blonde punani, but I doubt he is . Like if he is he would have shown interest in hanging with me more often. Man, I get chocked from my feelings, so I get really frustrated within.
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That hardly makes him gay. 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by IBeMe
tihihih sort of yes only my gaydar is NEVA EVA EVA WRONG! wanna know why?
because I transform dem str8's into dates
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I've actually been told by someone that I turned them gay
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Gurls, you gotta learn how to be persuasive that's all. It's pretty easy to get what you want if you are persistent.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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This was no crush but him in certain I was SURE he was gay af.
Like he would come out of no where and give me a massage, talk to me seductively, text me dirty things (as a joke), easy to talk to etc. He even said once "If he came out gay his dad would beat him".
Someone help me out here.
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Member Since: 3/13/2012
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Originally posted by Save My Life
This was no crush but him in certain I was SURE he was gay af.
Like he would come out of no where and give me a massage, talk to me seductively, text me dirty things (as a joke), easy to talk to etc. He even said once "If he came out gay his dad would beat him".
Someone help me out here.
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Sis if he said that once then he probably is but he wouldn't come out
Talk to him more tbh what if there's a chance even just exclusive for the two of you
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