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Originally posted by NLX
Like the role that they play...
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stud- masculine. mostly used in the black community (i think? i don't hear other queer women saying this)
butch- same thing as a stud but it's universally used
femme- feminine
lipstick lesbian- appears "straight" or whatever. i feel like this is only used when two "lipstick lesbians" are in a relationship together.
overall none of these are as stressed as top/bottom/verse are in the gay male community... it's pretty obvious and the roles aren't as strict if that makes sense. none of these necessarily determine sexual behavior or roles.
i mean studs/butches often use strap-ons but they don't have to i guess
source: me aka a closeted, bi teen girl