No because I'm a straight female dealing with straight men.

No. I have never been able to ask a guy out. I wait until they do it tbh

Too shy to ask in the first place

yes but I always put myself out there, I'm not afraid of rejection

Once, he was the first guy that i asked out, but i didn't even like him. I had to start from somewhere.

As in sent a message on an app and got nothing back? Yes, of course. I've had people I'm not into hit me up and I declined. I also had mutual interest before too. All part of the game!

Sure, there are a lot of picky gay men, but they likely whine about being single and will continue to whine about single for a long time. Any relationship built around someone's shirtless 'GM Instagram!' is bound to suffer.

Why was this warned?

The OP is shameless mess.

OT: yeah.

I've been rejected twice on grindr. They both said something to the effect of "not interested sorry" or "you're not my type" and it sank my heart. I was so sad. I don't even know why. Getting rejected twice in like 4 years of having the app is a pretty good track record.

I ended up voting for 'Never. I'm too hot.' because getting rejected twice on grindr by headless torsos who I probably knew doesn't count.

No, I'm a girl and I haven't tried making the first move so...

I haven't actually and I'm 23

Maybe because I don't go after anyone, I just wait until someone comes to me

No but that's only because I never make the first move to begin with

I don't actively come on to anyone. I let them come onto me.
There was this time I went on a date with a guy who asked me out. I thought it went well but apparently the feeling wasn't mutual and I never heard from him again.

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Yes it feels terrible