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Originally posted by Rihinvention
It was never about who was right and who was wrong. If she truly loved him she would have understood his position and why he thought what he was doing wasn't wrong, and consequently she would have forgiven him. When push comes to shove, it wasn't about the rules of it all, she was jealous and angry that he had sex with someone else. 
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Actually this goes both ways. He should have understood her position too, and why she thought what he did was wrong and why it hurt her.
If this had been a real couple's fight, then this would have been their problem. It became all about "who was right" to the point where they didn't even care about the issue at hand anymore. They were both as stubborn as each other, and neither wanted to admit to being wrong. They just wanted to be right. Communication wasn't the problem, they were hearing each other's perspectives, but they weren't absorbing it and really listening to what each other had to say.
If they wanted to make it work, they would have. She would have gotten over it way earlier than like, what, 6-8 years? However long it was.