nope

It honestly offends me when it's used in an offensive way that is meant to hurt me. If I'm around friends and we use it jokingly (which we almost never do) then I really couldn't care less.

I blew TF up on a guy who called me a Faqqot. Word was getting out that I was gay at the time, so I assumed he knew and was being rewd so I let it ALL out (I never said to him that it was the F word that triggered it, I just went off on him for being a disrespectful little bitch). Turned out he found out I was gay MONTHS later lol.

So yea. The word does offend me, but only if you call me or other gays it.

option #3: Who cares?