I don't know, my parents never suspected I was a homo but my sisters did. I have a lot of friends who knew right away and some that were shocked when I told them.
I guess being a fan of female popstarts gives it away.
I'll tell anyone I'm gay if they ask me. I don't go out of my way to say things like 'ooh it's going to be 80 degrees today and I am gay.' If someone asks me 'are you seeing anyone' or 'what kinds girls do you like' then I'd happily explain that I am gay, and explain my type of men.
Basically this
I don't think I'm really obviously gay but I don't think it really surprises people when I tell them.
It used to be very obvious to everyone but me when I was younger. As I got older I sort of become more reserved so the extrovert aspects me are kinda less obvious. Now, it's more like some people think I am and some people don't.
With me you can sort of tell because of the aura and vibe I give off lol I do not stick outmy hands and speak with the stereotypical gay lisp but I'm just naturally a softt person so ppl either think I'm a soft gentle person or they think I'm a str8 guy who is a bit feminine or sometimes think I'm gay lol. Like when I speak to girls at first they speak to me like a straight guy and even flirt and stuff but once I talk to them a lot more I notice they start talking to me like a girl ad make gay jokes that hint at them knowing something about me lol. When I speak to guys for some reason it's so hard be friending them because I give off a vibe that is similare to a girl talking to a guy lol I have often gotten things I wanted from str8 guys just because they kind of like the attention and way I look at them and speak to them I guess (it's not even intentional I guess I'm just naturally flirty?) anyway I luh being slightly ambiguous and confusing to ppl it's fun
I don't hide it when someone asks about "my girlfriend" or mentions hot girls or whatever, but you couldn't tell if you passed me by on the street
Most people think I'm joking when I disclose
