I've been fat till 7th grade then my life became a mess and I got thinner.
Now I'm pretty thin but I still feel kinda fat that's why I'm sometimes ashamed of getting naked infront of people.
Yes I was overweight. I started to turn things around January 2011 and 12 months later I had lost 75kg. I then went too far the other and became too thin
I actually enjoy husky guys over thinner builds (I'm very thin myself), so when I'm ever on a date, or having sex with a guy who was fat in the past, in my experience, they have some deeper rooted personality/psychological issues about weight that still need to be sorted out.
Example, I was on a date with a gorgeous guy who had a bit of a belly, no complaints here, but every... 5th sentence out of his mouth was either a comment about his own weight, my weight, his friends weight, or a strangers weight. Always really negative too. THAT was unattractive to me.
Also, I was recently seeing a 6'3 Brazilian man whom had the best body I had been with yet (HUGE pecs, big muscular arms... ughhh), however, he wouldn't even let me see him in his underwear with the lights on, because he was self conscious of his in-perfect body. Which again, was a huge turn off because no matter how much I complemented him, he thought i was lying.
So those are my first hand experiences that make me slightly apprehensive of dating people who used to be fat.
wow i had no idea that this was such a huge issue! I mean to the point that he wouldnt even believe you and couldnt get naked in front of you? thats pretty shocking
I lost 80 pounds during high school and became MORE self conscious than when I was a fattttt cat. Today I'm comfortable in my skin and at a healthy weight for my height (6'4 180 lb) and I'm confident as well, which is all I can really ask for.
Sometimes I like a lil chub on my men, I always found drake to be hotter when he was fluffier
I lost 15kg but I'm still fat and all of these threads where people mention they are thin are making me depressed.
Please don't feel like that! Don't let other's standards of beauty characterize yours - define it yourself! You'll be far happier, I promise. It takes time, but you'll feel much better about yourself.
I lost a lot of weight at 18(around 20 kg i guess).I've been fat my whole life before,now I'm in good shape!
It's not difficoult as it seems,you just gotta find something else to do instead of eating!Find new hobbies,go outside,keep yourself busy!
A few visits to the gym help as well...
Yes I was overweight. I started to turn things around January 2011 and 12 months later I had lost 75kg. I then went too far the other and became too thin
i fully commit to things, so if i was going to be overweight i was going to be really overweight just like when i lost the weight, if i was going to be thin, i was going to be too thin
I was 270 lbs about a year and a half ago and I've lost like 50 lbs and 20% body fat. I don't really think I'm fat anymore cause I have good muscle definition but my stomach is really an issue for me. It's still flabby and I've lost the elasticity. I wanna get a tummy tuck with lipo (along with a fat transfer into my ass) next year. I'm ready to have a taut tummy and bubble butt.