He's got a point though. Why are y'all so bothered about HIS weight? Realising that you're fat and wanting to change does NOT mean you're ready to change. It can actually be a big step - especially if he has a disturbed relationship to food. Getting rid of the comfort that food might give him can be really scary.
And if he doesn't want rehab or therapy, that probably means he thinks he can pull through on his own EVENTUALLY.
Y'all are doing way too much.
