LMAO. You sound like if getting a divorce was some kind of RULE from marriage. It depends on both, it requires sacrifice, it requires understanding, it requires a whole bunch things that require EFFORT.
I've always kind of wanted to get married and have a family. Everytime i go over to one of my dad's friends houses and watch over their children while my parents and theirs socialize, the more i am sure that i want a family when i grow up.
now on whether someone will ever actually be interested in me is another story....
Marry when I'm ready to marry (whether it be tomorrow, 5 years from now, 20 years, etc ) and have the amount of kids that myself and my wife would want (what a novel idea ).
When it willingly happens: Towards my late 20s/early 30s, and there will probably be a 2nd marrige in the thirties, and I'll say no more than 2, as well as one adoption.