Great advice.

I will say though, if companionship is something you want, it's great to use use it as motivation to better yourself.

I did. Still single tho

It's not about losing weight it's about getting fit.

Appearance plays an important roll in every relationship, I mean wake up it's the 21st century, it's sad that society thinks like this but you just have to embrace it, if you really want to find love you need to have a decent body not like ripped or extra built, just healthy.

Especially if you're gay. Gays care so much for looks, it's quite sad, but it's the truth we need to accept. One can say "You need to find someone who will love you for yourself not for your body" well ********, good luck finding that 1 % of human population,

OP if you really want to find love that quickly, well get in a better shape, you don't need to be super skinny just healthy, it's hard out there for gays with unhealthy bodies. Also I'm not telling you what to do, I'm just giving you an opinion, at the end of the day you decide not me.

Kiiiiii

at the risk of looking really insecure, I get you, OP. I started working out last week and changing my eating habts basically for the same reason.

I got paid dust when I lost weight and got skinny af. I notice a lot more attention now that I've gained back some of the weight. Whatever you do, do it healthily.

WAIT YOU BITCH

ur fine just the way u r

I was chubby and everyone paid me dust and then I got skinnier and, well the gworls didn't exactly flock, but interest perked up - that's for sure. The local gays are a mess.