It seems like I can't find love because I gained a few pounds over the last months. It's not like I am fat but I feel like love is only for people who are skinny. So I started a diet one week ago and already lost 5 pounds. But what will I do after I am skinny? Will love finally come to me? Or what should I do to find it? I was cheated in almost every relationship I've been in. And they all told me the same thing after they broke up with me... They wanted someone who is in better shape.

So is it true? Do skinny people find love more easily?

Maybe your face is ugly.

If your problem is that you're not in good shape there's nothing wrong with wanting to better yourself

Part of it is dependent on age. The younger gays tend to be more superficial...but that being said, it's always an attractive quality to be healthy and I would understand why someone would want to be with somebody that lives/leads a healthy lifestyle (not saying that heavier people aren't healthy...but that's the STIGMA/ignorance associated with heaviness)

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R u gay? Join a bear community.

expose ha

Not funny or cute.

I've always felt this but never personally gone through it (like I was too little and always had to do more to be healthy). It's a superficial thing. You can do things for yourself but only do them if you want to for yourself - not for anyone else. If you think you are fine, damn it, you are probably fine. Sometimes you need motivation but sometimes it could just end up being waiting for the right guy.

Someday you´ll find true love, you haven´t searched harder.


oh and exercise constantly together with your diet! Because diet alone isn´t helpful!

It's nothing wrong with wanting to better yourself. And honestly good looking people have it a little easier so why not

Not the first post and your 4th overall

my ass looks better than you.

girl what is this.

Worry about your mental health first yo. Make sure you come to terms with yourself before you go changing your physical appearance.

Your physical health is important but make sure you're doing it for the right reasons (fitness, health) and not for dick because dick will eventually get bored.

If you want to change your appearance you should be doing it for yourself and not other people. Everyone has different tastes, you can't cater to them all.

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Im to sure tbh.. I know lots of big gays that have hot boyfriends.. Also how overweight are you?.. cuz if you get loose skin its only gonna make you feel worse after you lose it.