Discussion: When do you plan on coming out? - Page 8

Ares

I don't feel the need to, tbh.

If people ask me, sure, I'll tell them. But I don't plan on running around telling everyone about my sexuality. I find the idea a bit ridiculous.

Rimo

It's not a good idea to come out as gay in the middle east, gays should be stoned to death

and my dad will beat me up so hard because when i asked him " what will you do if your son is gay "
i was shocked of the answer for knowing that this will happen to me if i came out of the closet
so i really don't want to lose my parents, Even though there was nights where i cry so hard because
i can't accept my self and i can't live a normal life like everyone else, so THIS IS MY HORRIBLE LIFE

Shinning

I'm out to basically all my friends. I was 18 when I first came to my best friend and gradually over the years told everyone else.
Am not out to anyone in my family though. I'll probably only tell my parents when I'm not living with them and not financially dependent on them. I'm 20 so I got some time.

Aaron

I'm out.

izzy™

When I move to the other side of the world

Barbie.

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Originally posted by Ares

I don't feel the need to, tbh.

If people ask me, sure, I'll tell them. But I don't plan on running around telling everyone about my sexuality. I find the idea a bit ridiculous.

How about to your parents?

Ares

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Originally posted by MCMXCVIl

How about to your parents?

My mom already knows. I didn't really have to tell her, she figured it out. It was awkward conversation. To say the least.

suneclipse121

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Originally posted by SmokeOnDiamonds

But I do live in the USA. I live in Cali

I just have a family who doesn't support LGBT. I remember playing with Barbies when I was 5 and my Uncle snatched it away from my hands and threw a Batman action figure at my face. I cried......alot. Also, accidently came out to my Brother when I was 11 because he kept asking me why did I like watching Telenovelas and not Football. He got really pisst off and after seeing his reaction, I told him I was kidding. My Mom makes fun of Gays when she see's one on TV. My Stepmom would always ask me why I like hanging out with girls alot, and called me a ******. When I was 5, the neighborhood chased me and water hosed me and beat the crap outta me. Even my brother and sister laughed, no one helped me. My Dad warned me that I better not turn out Gay or else I'd be buried like this ------>

My Family is all I have left. I'm never coming out the closet. I melted the key so I won't use it to unlock myself out.

Listen I know family is family but at some point you have to start living for YOU. Why would you sacrifice your happiness to please them its YOUR LIFE. At the end of the day you are living it and you concealing who you are is only going to make you miserable and unhappy.
Why would you do that to yourself??

When you become a legal adult you should move out and leave them behind and dont look back. What's a family for if they dont love you for who you are?? I understand that you love them but at what point does that love stop you from loving yourself, being yourself!!

Stop living for other people and start living for you!! And if your family wont support you and love you like they should then love and support yourself. There is ALWAYS a way. Dont ever feel like you have live to please anyone that's a horrible way to live life.

Barbie.

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Originally posted by suneclipse121

Listen I know family is family but at some point you have to start living for YOU. Why would you sacrifice your happiness to please them its YOUR LIFE. At the end of the day you are living it and you concealing who you are is only going to make you miserable and unhappy.
Why would you do that to yourself??

When you become a legal adult you should move out and leave them behind and dont look back. What's a family for if they dont love you for who you are?? I understand that you love them but at what point does that love stop you from loving yourself, being yourself!!

Stop living for other people and start living for you!! And if your family wont support you and love you like they should then love and support yourself. There is ALWAYS a way. Dont ever feel like you have live to please anyone that's a horrible way to live life.

Thanks for this

Barbie.

CosTaSsSs

Well my parents don't know anything and I don't want them to know until I could live on my own. lol My friends do however but if anyone is going to ask me I would probably say no, just because it's not his or hers business.

Barbie.

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Originally posted by CosTaSsSs

Well my parents don't know anything and I don't want them to know until I could live on my own. lol My friends do however but if anyone is going to ask me I would probably say no, just because it's not his or hers business.

Right! I hate when people at my school ask whether I'm gay or not

Barbie.

Shigo

ALREADY OUT.

■YoungCalifornia■

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Originally posted by suneclipse121

Listen I know family is family but at some point you have to start living for YOU. Why would you sacrifice your happiness to please them its YOUR LIFE. At the end of the day you are living it and you concealing who you are is only going to make you miserable and unhappy.
Why would you do that to yourself??

When you become a legal adult you should move out and leave them behind and dont look back. What's a family for if they dont love you for who you are?? I understand that you love them but at what point does that love stop you from loving yourself, being yourself!!

Stop living for other people and start living for you!! And if your family wont support you and love you like they should then love and support yourself. There is ALWAYS a way. Dont ever feel like you have live to please anyone that's a horrible way to live life.

Omg!!! This is so true sis!! Thank you!

I swear I can't wait til I move out and live my own life.

Bryan

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Originally posted by Ares

I don't feel the need to, tbh.

If people ask me, sure, I'll tell them. But I don't plan on running around telling everyone about my sexuality. I find the idea a bit ridiculous.

This.