I've been a member since 2006, and I was really into ATRL, like posting everyday etc.
The past year I got back into it, but I mostly just go on Celebria and Base to read people's OTT comments and stories, which I love, and mostly the amazing GIFS I collect as well :-)
It's just so hard to be active on a bazillion things: facebook, twitter, instagram, ONTD etc plus I dont get notifications when I reply to threads and such so I always forget when I write something to look back or read people's responses haha
I used to have one and he's my age and we'd flirt and stuff and plan on meeting each other but then he started dating a dude and he deleted me from skype and facebook and unfollowed me from twitter and instagram. I was like oh ok