Girls are free to do what ever they want. They can kiss, hug, sit, spoon and hold hands with other girls and no one would ever look strange. When it comes to french kissing, it's hot. But when it's a guy it's ****ing disgusting. Or he is automatically gay if he gives another guy a hug. I know the female sex has complained a lot about sexist but they do have the advantage here. I have seen the majority of my female friends kiss each other but never the guys.
Why is being gay cool when you are a female, but when you are a guy it's a disgrace?
Because, straight men (which they dominate the chruches and the goverment of some countries) usually like lesbian sex....but on the other hand, straight men canīt even watch their fellow men, suck or have sex with a another fellow men.
i think in real life gays have it easier than real lesbians. gays have the girls, but lesbians only really have each other. you don't see straight men with lesbian bff now do you?
i think in real life gays have it easier than real lesbians. gays have the girls, but lesbians only really have each other. you don't see straight men with lesbian bff now do you?
but I see lesbians bff with gay men tho ?
anyway the Queen spilled the tea LONG time ago.
Attractive lesbians are only "accepted" for a man's sexual desire, they're still not taken seriously when it comes to raising families, getting married, etc.
It's funny y'know, I had a conversation with a friend about this recently. I feel gay guys are actually more accepted. I remember my year in school, there were three openly gay guys - not one girl was "out of the closet". People see gays as like a novelty, the whole "gay best friend" thing. It's sad but we're almost seen as pets at times, something people like to have on their arm.
When it comes to lesbians, people seem more unnerved by the whole thing. Of course, stuff such as the Britney and Madonna kiss is accepted as it's two attractive women, but it's seen as titillating & "controversial". Although we see that famous kiss as "accepted", people just watched it because they were fascinated by it - it's something "out of the ordinary". When it comes to "real life" lesbians, they're nowhere near as accepted. I remember in my school year, there were three openly gay guys, NO girls. I almost think lesbians are seen as more of a taboo.
It's a straight mans world and straight men love lesbians and hate gay guys. But only feminine, attractive lesbians who can fulfill their fantasies. Manly lesbians aren't accepted at all and often recieve hostility from straight men. And finding something sexually attractive isn't real acceptance anyway, lesbians don't get acceptance where it counts like respect for their relationships and being taken seriously.
