I just wanted to see other's opinions. Normally if I meet a really hot guy and we'd plan online on hooking up or something, I tease as if I will, but in reality after all the dirty-talking is done, I know I'll never be able to. If I find out the guy I'm talking to is either engaged, married, in a relationship, has a kid, etc., I'll never be able to do more than just talk to him online. That's just the kind of person I am. Would you guys hook up with a person you meet that you know is dating/in a committed relationship? Do you care or do you think it's not your fault and you're not going to be in the middle of it? I'd feel like **** afterwards.
It would depend on tons of things: Are they VD-free? Does the partner know? Is this a one-off or a regular occurrence?
Doesn't matter. Just in general, would you feel like **** hooking up with a man who you know has a wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend at home who deeply cares about them, or a kid? Or would you not care because it's not your problem?
Umm definitely not. I just imagine myself being on the other side of things. Like if my bf were to cheat on me under any circumstances, I would be devastated, so I don't want to put someone through that. It bothers me that most of my friends would do it in a heartbeat
I would probably feel bad for talking to him after I find out he was in a relationship. I don't think I would hook up with him. If I was in a relationship and my bf cheated.... Wigs would be snatched.
Umm definitely not. I just imagine myself being on the other side of things. Like if my bf were to cheat on me under any circumstances, I would be devastated, so I don't want to put someone through that. It bothers me that most of my friends would do it in a heartbeat
Exactly. The guy I'm randomly talking to right now says his wife knows he ****s other guys and she sometimes contributes, which I think he's either lying or which is even more messed up, considering he's 22 and has a KID. I don't really care about him or the wife, I just feel horrible for the kid. The fact they probably brought him into this world by mistake and can't keep a a stable relationship together. Smh.
i have before but i wouldn't now that i'm a bit older. my mindset at the time was that it wasn't my responsibility to keep the dude faithful, it was his. butttt at this point i don't want to get into it with guys who aren't genuinely decent people
When I was in high school I totally would've hooked up with guys who had girlfriends tbh Now no because that's nasty that they're passing it to two people at the same time.
No, i have class and dignity. There are billions of people on this planet. I don't need to go down so low to steal someone else's man for the sake of having sex. BYE
One time I hooked up with a guy and his husband. And then I found out he also had a boyfriend and then I began to go out with them and all, that was the messiest my life has ever been, but the three of them were very funny and easy going. I really enjoyed my time with them, but things got messy in my heart and mind, so...