I think it's a combination of my preference for looks, their personality (especially if they happen to be kind of "bro-y" and/or nerdy

) and my lack of gaydar.

Plus, gays that I'm attracted to never seem to go for me, or we just don't have much in common. So it's easy to accidentally fall for a cute straight guy who has cool personality, nice and kind to you, and who you actually connect with on many levels.
