Who would think the bottom left? Can't we assume they're taking turns?

That's nice of you. Unfortunately, that's not how the world works.

Cultures with little respect for women would think the bottom left.

To summarize: people are assholes.

Oh, then it's not "my" society. Then again, i didn't stop to consider that I don't see people riding donkeys.

Because I Am... Chauntreuse.

Best op on ATRL in years

people are judgmental and gossip

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the best way is to do it your way and not give a single flying **** what anyone else thinks about it.

Queen Kelly has a song for this called You Can't Win.

Exactly, no matter what you do someone is going to have something to say-- negative or positive.

The way I see it, someone's always going to hate what you're doing...so at least be hated for reasons that are authentic to you and you alone.