Can't escape that gaydar, huh?
Honestly, don't imprison yourself to false standards. Be yourself, please. If you're gay then embrace it, it's fine. People face discrimination all the time, you just gotta live your life according to your agenda. Phobia of all kinds will always exist, you can't succumb to it. Honestly, put it in reverse and think. What if someone were to say "ewww, you're straight that's nasty" wouldn't that sound incredibly odd and stupid to you? It's the same as someone saying "ew you're gay"....how is someone's personal preference nasty? It's a matter of people being afraid of something they don't understand. You can't control it. Be yourself dude, don't live under false pretenses.