members of the sex they'er attracted to alone?

PS. Why would it be seen as jealous or controlling if you brought the issue up with your partner?

I think it all depends on the situation.
If theyre hanging about with their friends that happen to be the sex they are attracted to then no, i wouldnt care at all.

However, i am an insanely jealous person and if they were hanging around with someone that they barely knew, who was very very flirty, id get annoyed not gonna lie.

But is telling your SO that you're uncomfortable with it acutally control? What if your SO think you're crossing some sort of boundry?

You're right he does that have that freedom, but does that mean he should disregard how is SO feels towards the situation. Some people may trust their SO but feel as if some boundaries are being crossed. Wouldn't you try to find some common ground in the situation.

I'm 90% sure you've made this thread before, what's going on in your relationship?

But isn't that what a relationship is about? Communication, honesty, respect, etc. Couple have to compromise to keep their relationship. And wouldn't the SO be selfish as well doing something that may hurt their partner?

Definitely. If you can't trust the person you're in a relationship with, end the relationship. Don't go around stalking them or telling them who they can and cannot hang around with.

It really boils down to my intuition. If I'm getting a bad vibe then it is for a reason, and in the past I have followed up on that bad vibe and have been constantly right.

  

No, unless it's somebody I know.

If you're SO ignores your feelings isn't that a bit inconsedirate? And discussing what makes you feel uncomfortable isn't causing drama or limiting yourself. You shouldn't force him/her to do what you please, but just discuss and reach an agreement . Isn't that what a relationship should be about?

Trust is important and agree with your second statement, but if you're SO is getting too close to someone of the opposite/same sex, wouldn't you be alarmed?

Just accept it whether you like it or not, love is not love if you don't trust each other

I don't think you understand what it means to compromise. If you're asking him to stop spending time with his long-term friends then you're the one who should compromise and let it slide cause those people have been around him for longer than you've been and you are being looked as a 3rd party. It's controlling and demeaning if you insist on him hanging only with you.

If his friends are new however (met them around the same time you started dating), then you're somewhat right in asking him what's the big deal.

As for the selfish part... It's the complete opposite, you would be considered selfish because you only want him for yourself and want him to basically take a few steps back from his friends in order for you to feel better. No sane person would come to terms with that so you'd basically be digging your own grave.

I say either learn to deal with it or find yourself some new friends you can hang out with on your own. Or, break the relationship cause if you keep nagging about it it will crumble on its own sooner rather than later.

No

As long as they weren't flirty.