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Discussion: Female ATRLers, what qualities do you like in a guy?
Member Since: 1/2/2014
Posts: 3,830
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As long as he is good looking I really don't care what features he has, but I tend to go for brown haired guys with strong features. Spanish or European Jewish type  As for height, I don't care, as long as he is at least a bit taller than me. I'm around 5,6. I don't mind if he is shorter than me when I'm wearing heels.
Personality wise, he has to be honest and kind. I hate ratchet, two faced mess. I also love it when he is family oriented and fun to be around 
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Member Since: 4/22/2012
Posts: 33,490
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sense of humour, kindness, honesty, intelligence. and he needs to have at least some similar/shared interests
I don't have a type as far as looks go, as long as he's not too muscular and we look good together
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Member Since: 2/5/2014
Posts: 609
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Originally posted by Kali.
As long as he is good looking I really don't care what features he has, but I tend to go for brown haired guys with strong features. Spanish or European Jewish type  As for height, I don't care, as long as he is at least a bit taller than me. I'm around 5,6. I don't mind if he is shorter than me when I'm wearing heels.
Personality wise, he has to be honest and kind. I hate ratchet, two faced mess. I also love it when he is family oriented and fun to be around 
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I'm all yours bae 
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 11/14/2008
Posts: 24,988
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Personality, confident, educated, tall, and fit among most things. I prefer men over 6 feet tall. I can't be wearing my favorite shoes and be taller than you, it would just feel weird to me. I'm 5'3, but 70% of my shoes will put me at 5'9.
If you can't make me laugh or smile with ease nor can you stimulate me intellectually, it's a recipe for disaster. I like ambitious men who have goals and priorities.
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And do you girls always expect guys make the first move or does it not matter?
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Kitt. was correct! Ideally, we prefer the male to make the first move, but some of us aren't above making the first move.
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Member Since: 2/5/2014
Posts: 609
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Originally posted by foxaylove
Personality, confident, educated, tall, and fit among most things. I prefer men over 6 feet tall. I can't be wearing my favorite shoes and be taller than you, it would just feel weird to me. I'm 5'3, but 70% of my shoes will put me at 5'9.
If you can't make me laugh or smile with ease nor can you stimulate me intellectually, it's a recipe for disaster. I like ambitious men who have goals and priorities.
Kitt. was correct! Ideally, we prefer the male to make the first move, but some of us aren't above making the first move.
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DAMN girl!!
How is it even humanely possible to walk in those with any modicum of comfort??? 
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
Posts: 17,136
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Originally posted by NE.
Right there in front of your face?
Thank God I'm 6'1 lol.
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Well come and get it daddy
No, seriously, it never fails. I always sit front row in all of my classes and my professors are usually tall men and they love to stand in front of me and it's like right there. How is a girl supposed to focus with your nuts damn near on my forehead?
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
Posts: 17,136
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Originally posted by XLR8
DAMN girl!!
How is it even humanely possible to walk in those with any modicum of comfort??? 
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If you wear heels a lot, you get used to it. I think I could run a marathon in some 6 inches.... okay maybe not, but I can slay in some with no pain. I do love my sneakers though. I usually only where 4'' though. which puts me at 5'6'' 
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Member Since: 6/10/2010
Posts: 18,057
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Hot, smart, Funny and considerate.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 58,053
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thank you foxay for that lovely... you know what 
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 11/14/2008
Posts: 24,988
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Originally posted by XLR8
DAMN girl!!
How is it even humanely possible to walk in those with any modicum of comfort??? 
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Easy, when you wear them so much, you grow immune to the discomfort at times. Plus, I always carry some comfortable shoes (TOMS) or slippers in my purse. Always prepare for the unexpected.
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Originally posted by KB.
If you wear heels a lot, you get used to it. I think I could run a marathon in some 6 inches.... okay maybe not, but I can slay in some with no pain. I do love my sneakers though. I usually only where 4'' though. which puts me at 5'6'' 
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Now I draw the line at running a marathon in my 6 inch heels. Girl, are you cray?  I have ran in 4 inches in the past, but not no 6 inches. I sprained my ankle last week playing tennis with my bestie. I'm having to wear my "mama shoes" as I like to call them lately. I'm lucky I even have those. 4" are great though, most of my shoes prior to '12 were that height. I only became more ambitious the past two years.
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 11/14/2008
Posts: 24,988
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Originally posted by DevonRoars
thank you foxay for that lovely... you know what 
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Any time doll. 
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
Posts: 17,136
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Originally posted by foxaylove
Easy, when you wear them so much, you grow immune to the discomfort at times. Plus, I always carry some comfortable shoes (TOMS) or slippers in my purse. Always prepare for the unexpected.
Now I draw the line at running a marathon in my 6 inch heels. Girl, are you cray?  I have ran in 4 inches in the past, but not no 6 inches. I sprained my ankle last week playing tennis with my bestie. I'm having to wear my "mama shoes" as I like to call them lately. I'm lucky I even have those. 4" are great though, most of my shoes prior to '12 were that height. I only became more ambitious the past two years.
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 I was playing. I mean I love 6'', but I'm not as comfortable wearing them as I am 4''-5''. If they have a platform they're fine, but if they're just some pumps they end up killing my arches eventually.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/11/2007
Posts: 63,796
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Has to have long/medium hair, i'm not here for dorky short hair boys
has to have dark brown or green eyes (not here for blue)
Dark/Black Hair
Cute face.
Has to have a great personality too, or i'd never click with the guy.
I also find the emo look super sexy :drools: trying to get my bf to roleplay a emo boy, but he won't be a part of it 
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Member Since: 6/30/2012
Posts: 22,003
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 28,137
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- Funny
- Good personality
- Smells good
- Toned Biceps and chest >>>
- Guys who don't skip leg day >>>
- Brown eyes usually
Idk I have a pretty diverse taste. I've pretty much fantasized about every guy that's ever made me laugh 
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 40,803
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Let me take notes

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Member Since: 4/12/2012
Posts: 7,361
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financially stable, strong and muscular and military,
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 11/5/2011
Posts: 100,491
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A pulse and a bank account.
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Member Since: 12/24/2010
Posts: 37,039
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Charisma, intelligence, MATURE, clean, tall. In the looks I like shaved guys, white and I find moles, freckles really sexy. Their body athletic so I can feel protected (  ) but at the end the looks aren't so important. I'm not saying I'm going to date someone who doesn't has everything I just wrote. If there's chemistry the looks aren't really that important. I'm dating someone who's the total opposite of what I just described 
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Member Since: 8/19/2011
Posts: 13,865
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Good sense of humour is a must for me. 
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