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Discussion: Female ATRLers, what qualities do you like in a guy?
Member Since: 8/18/2013
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Originally posted by Embustera
Can you guys read: FEMALE ATRLERS.
I only date guys who are tall, with a nice body, green eyes, black hair. And it's really attractive when a boy is smart.
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Same
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Member Since: 5/7/2012
Posts: 41,067
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Somebody who is patient and understanding. Somebody who is supportive of my problems and doesn't shame me for them. Somebody who is non dramatic and doesn't get angry over any little thing. Somebody who is non prejudiced (so no racists/homophobes/misogynists hihi).Somebody who isn't lazy and doesn't just sit on his bum all day expecting everyone else to do everything for him. Somebody who isn't threatened by an independent women with her own opinions. Somebody who can give me space and be okay with me needing alone time, and realize that doesn't mean that I don't like them, I just can't be around any one person 24/7. Oh and I'm shy so it would be preferable for the guy to make the first move because lord help me I'm not gonna do it.
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Member Since: 2/29/2012
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Member Since: 1/3/2014
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Originally posted by Guernica
Somebody who is patient and understanding. Somebody who is supportive of my problems and doesn't shame me for them. Somebody who is non dramatic and doesn't get angry over any little thing. Somebody who is non prejudiced (so no racists/homophobes/misogynists hihi).Somebody who isn't lazy and doesn't just sit on his bum all day expecting everyone else to do everything for him. Somebody who isn't threatened by an independent women with her own opinions. Somebody who can give me space and be okay with me needing alone time, and realize that doesn't mean that I don't like them, I just can't be around any one person 24/7. Oh and I'm shy so it would be preferable for the guy to make the first move because lord help me I'm not gonna do it.
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Literally all of this.
+ being tall is a necessity. Can't date a guy who's shorter than me. Basically those "tall dark handsome" guys.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 9,314
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Originally posted by Guernica
Somebody who is patient and understanding. Somebody who is supportive of my problems and doesn't shame me for them. Somebody who is non dramatic and doesn't get angry over any little thing. Somebody who is non prejudiced (so no racists/homophobes/misogynists hihi).Somebody who isn't lazy and doesn't just sit on his bum all day expecting everyone else to do everything for him. Somebody who isn't threatened by an independent women with her own opinions. Somebody who can give me space and be okay with me needing alone time, and realize that doesn't mean that I don't like them, I just can't be around any one person 24/7. Oh and I'm shy so it would be preferable for the guy to make the first move because lord help me I'm not gonna do it.
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all of this
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Member Since: 2/29/2012
Posts: 17,071
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Don't you girls feel shallow for saying no short guys, though? I always feel like that's so unfair. 
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Member Since: 3/27/2009
Posts: 30,284
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To add to NE's question: Girls who are shorter (5'0-5'6), do you like guys who are short as well (5'6 - 5'8) or who are taller?
I always feel girls like guys who are 6'0 even if they are short themselves and I, myself, am only 5'8.

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Member Since: 8/1/2012
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is 1,80m too small?
 I wish I was 5 cm taller.
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Member Since: 2/29/2012
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I've always looked at it like, as long as your still taller than her (even in the slightest) when she wears heels, you're fine.
God, that is so cruel 
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
Posts: 17,136
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I used to be really picky, but it's calmed down with age. Now I just appreciate a guy who I can chill with, makes me laugh, is ambitious, intelligent, family oriented, and loves sports as much as I do. I feel like if I find that then everything else will fall into place. I don't care if he doesn't make millions (he does have to at least have a decent job though) or even if he has a kid or two as long as he takes care of them. I actually like emotional guys as well, guys who aren't afraid to show that they are in touch with their feelings yet still give me a sense of security.
Most females don't realize that security doesn't just come in the form of a man being able to protect you from harm, but from emotional pain as well.
Anyway, I've found myself to not be as particular with looks. I mean who doesn't like a fine ass piece of chocolate? But I wouldn't not talk to a guy if he wasn't all the way up to my beauty standards... I at least have to be attracted to him though. Ideally I do like talk, dark, and handsome, but he doesn't have to be that.
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
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Originally posted by Kitt
I've always looked at it like, as long as your still taller than her (even in the slightest) when she wears heels, you're fine.
God, that is so cruel 
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Luckily for me, I'm 5'2'', so most guys are taller than me; however, I do prefer taller guys or trees I can climb. There's something about a 6'2''+ man who towers over you  . I would date an averaged height guy though.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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I like tall muscular guys. But my boyfriend is short so.. 
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 2,811
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A geeky personality and a sense of humour.
That's all I ask. And I guess to be taller than me.
Edit - And someone that will understand that I will always love Britney more than I will ever love him 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Guernica
Somebody who is patient and understanding. Somebody who is supportive of my problems and doesn't shame me for them. Somebody who is non dramatic and doesn't get angry over any little thing. Somebody who is non prejudiced (so no racists/homophobes/misogynists hihi).Somebody who isn't lazy and doesn't just sit on his bum all day expecting everyone else to do everything for him. Somebody who isn't threatened by an independent women with her own opinions. Somebody who can give me space and be okay with me needing alone time, and realize that doesn't mean that I don't like them, I just can't be around any one person 24/7. Oh and I'm shy so it would be preferable for the guy to make the first move because lord help me I'm not gonna do it.
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Pretty much
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
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When a tall guy stands in front of you and his whole package is just right there  #intimidation
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 34,846
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Originally posted by KB.
Luckily for me, I'm 5'2'', so most guys are taller than me; however, I do prefer taller guys or trees I can climb. There's something about a 6'2''+ man who towers over you  . I would date an averaged height guy though.
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Not us being the same height.
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
Posts: 17,136
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Originally posted by Bey_Rihstan
Not us being the same height.
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It's such a struggle. I need a man who can reach the items on the top shelf 
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Member Since: 2/20/2012
Posts: 24,225
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Quote:
Originally posted by DevonRoars
A big o' fat ass.
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Member Since: 5/21/2009
Posts: 11,151
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Quote:
Originally posted by KB.
When a tall guy stands in front of you and his whole package is just right there  #intimidation
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Right there in front of your face?
Thank God I'm 6'1 lol.
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Member Since: 10/28/2011
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I'm 5'11" or maybe 6'.
I'm starting to notice that actually a lot of girls like me. I'm not the boof ass ***** I thought I was. 
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