It's more than likely that they know already, if you're flaming or flamboyant or whatever. My advice is not to do it. Why do they need to know? It's your personal business whom you phreek with behind closed doors. Too many gays bully other gays into feeling that they "need" to get this "weight" off their shoulders, as if you're incomplete until you've told every single person you know your sexual orientation. Don't succumb to that kind of pressure if you're not ready to, or if you simply feel it's your business and your business only. Your privacy is something you can never get back, should you divulge.

It's more than likely that they know already, if you're flaming or flamboyant or whatever. My advice is not to do it. Why do they need to know? It's your personal business whom you phreek with behind closed doors. Too many gays bully other gays into feeling that they "need" to get this "weight" off their shoulders, as if you're incomplete until you've told every single person you know your sexual orientation. Don't succumb to that kind of pressure if you're not ready to, or if you simply feel it's your business and your business only. Your privacy is something you can never get back, should you divulge.