Discussion: Worst date ever - Page 2

Gazing Ball

Definitely can't top ManDown's absolute MESS but I had a date with this guy who was pretty my the first guy ever really interested in me and I was 16 and so excited about it. Anyway we went to see a movie and it was that god-awfully depressing film Changeling and it was so disturbing and haunting and we were holding hands in the movie but we were both so traumatised that we just stopped and then afterwards we walked home and he wanted to hook up but I was a frigid bitch so said I was "saving my first kiss" (I'm demented!) and he was like um okay

and then we never really went out again but a couple of weeks later we both wound up with a job at the same store and it was awkward. We didn't have one brief fling (including a mid-shift, bathroom hook up

) a few months later but yeah it fizzled and we were left with awkwardness at work and knowing glances.

heidimontag

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Originally posted by ManDown

I've had so many! Some of them aren't ATRL appropriate.

I'd say the worst was last year. It was February, and I had finally bought my own car. I was excited because I could finally go on real dates now, rather than having people pick me up or having somebody drop me off to meet somebody. I was on a dating site at the time, and this guy started messaging me. He was attractive; not extremely handsome, but who cares? He could have a good personality and heart. He was in the military for several years, and had done several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (he didn't disclose the Afghanistan/Iraq part in his profile, I found out when we met). He wasn't very old either, 27 if I remember correctly. Anyway, he said all of the right things and eventually I gave in to his requests to meet. The plan was for me to go over to his house, we would get Chinese food, watch a movie and I would leave.

So, I'm driving over to his house. I had a really strange feeling the whole time, I can't describe it. I knew something bad was going to happen. I finally get to his house, and it's a beat up, old trailer. Whatever, I've lived in a trailer at one point in my life when my mother was struggling financially, so I shouldn't judge, right? He opened the door, and I knew that I had made a mistake. He was at least 40 pounds heavier than what his pictures had showed, and something seemed off about him. Anyway, long story short, we ordered Chinese, rented a couple of movies and started watching them. As we're talking, he tells me that he's killed many people while in the military, and often has thoughts/dreams of killing more people. He also bragged about killing children in Iraq. I was so disgusted, and I don't know why I didn't just leave then. I tried to keep my distance but act as polite as possible. He reached towards me and literally PULLED my hair, and yanked my head back and started kissing my neck. I was like, "We're moving a bit too fast..." We kiss for a minute, he yanks his shirt off and goes for mine. At this point, I'm freaked out and don't know what to do. I give in at first, but then he bit my lip so hard that I literally started bleeding and he bruised the outside of it. He kept growling like a ****ing animal, and I knew that I had to get out of there. I asked him to stop, but he wouldn't at first. At this point, the movie was over and I told him that I had to leave and be up early the next day. As I went to leave, he threw me against the wall and put his hands by my face and said, "You're mine now."

I sped home, and blocked his Facebook and number as soon as I got to my car. He kept trying to message me on the dating site, so I deleted my profile. It was a really scary experience. Definitely the worst date I've had.

I'm sorry but