Discussion: Worst date ever

MLover

Share your worst date stories. I'll go with mine.

I once fell asleep on a date with a guy. He was very handsome but also very very boring. We where at his place where he had cooked me some awful dinner, I couldn't wait to go home because all he did was talk about himself (I'm a girl I NEED ALL THE ATTENTION) SO when he went the bathroom I fell asleep.

Now share your stories with me

MLover

Date number 2:

With another guy. We went out for some coffee and walk across the park. 5 minuets into the date dude starts talking about old women and the holocaust and how the weather must have been cold.

M A R N ✮

Never really had a "bad" date since I never really been on dates.

I guess the date before I meet my boyfriend...was with this really nice guy...but not my type and I swore he was ga y I mean we went to see Twilight Part 1, and he told me he loved gossip girl & pop music I was like riiiiiight. he asked me out after but I kinda just put him off quite a few times...then when I meet barry...been with him for over 2 years now and that was the best date ever

hehe.

I think my bf facebooked him bc he was like super depressed I turned him down and got like a boyfriend a few weeks later.
he felt better after that too lol.

Cardinal_Luis

It was about a month ago before I met the guy I'm connecting with now. I'm 21 and this boy was 18 so I knew from the start he was going to be a little more.... naive, ya know? Fresh out of high school and everything so I decided not to take this date seriously but he was hella cute. I took him out for breakfast cuz I had to work in the afternoon and his nervousness turned me on. We made small talk until we got the food and the conversation started rolling.....

He was weird af. was sayin sh*t like "I can so see myself with you, ya know?" and "You should meet my parents, they would love you." And when I got up to go to the bathroom, he'd be like "don't go strolling! haha"

And he will keep telling me stories of how everybody likes his bubblebutt and I'm just thinking like... I guess I can't blame him for being excited and all but damn, small stuff like that really bother me ya know? So when we were done and I was driving him home, he started saying things like "So you're not talking to any guys right" and I chuckled when he was like "Why do people keep calling you? Are they boys... I mean that's ok but you took me on a date... I thought...."

I told him I hate texting and people call me because I don't text back usually.

When I parked at his house, I went to the passenger side door and opened it for him to get out (traditional hopeless romantic here) and I told him I had a great time and I'd hit him up. Never did.

BudBud

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Originally posted by Cardinal_Luis

It was about a month ago before I met the guy I'm connecting with now. I'm 21 and this boy was 18 so I knew from the start he was going to be a little more.... naive, ya know? Fresh out of high school and everything so I decided not to take this date seriously but he was hella cute. I took him out for breakfast cuz I had to work in the afternoon and his nervousness turned me on. We made small talk until we got the food and the conversation started rolling.....

He was weird af. was sayin sh*t like "I can so see myself with you, ya know?" and "You should meet my parents, they would love you." And when I got up to go to the bathroom, he'd be like "don't go strolling! haha"

And he will keep telling me stories of how everybody likes his bubblebutt and I'm just thinking like... I guess I can't blame him for being excited and all but damn, small stuff like that really bother me ya know? So when we were done and I was driving him home, he started saying things like "So you're not talking to any guys right" and I chuckled when he was like "Why do people keep calling you? Are they boys... I mean that's ok but you took me on a date... I thought...."

I told him I hate texting and people call me because I don't text back usually.

When I parked at his house, I went to the passenger side door and opened it for him to get out (traditional hopeless romantic here) and I told him I had a great time and I'd hit him up. Never did.

No shade but that story went no where - you lucky you not ugly

anyways my dates so far have all been good .

Cardinal_Luis

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Originally posted by BudBud

No shade but that story went no where - you lucky you not ugly

anyways my dates so far have all been good .

sawwwy

EdwardB

Last year.I met this guy during class,he sat next to me and we were equally bored so we started joking and he seemed to be pretty funny.He gave me his number and a couple of days later we decided to go out for a drink.
Well,it was awkward.He started talking about bee-jays (in public) and he kept saying he really wished he had a penis in his mouth and stuff like that.
I'm usually ok with any kind of jokes or humour,but that was too much..people were staring at us!
I paid and I went home.No bj for me that night.

ManDown

I've had so many! Some of them aren't ATRL appropriate.

I'd say the worst was last year. It was February, and I had finally bought my own car. I was excited because I could finally go on real dates now, rather than having people pick me up or having somebody drop me off to meet somebody. I was on a dating site at the time, and this guy started messaging me. He was attractive; not extremely handsome, but who cares? He could have a good personality and heart. He was in the military for several years, and had done several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (he didn't disclose the Afghanistan/Iraq part in his profile, I found out when we met). He wasn't very old either, 27 if I remember correctly. Anyway, he said all of the right things and eventually I gave in to his requests to meet. The plan was for me to go over to his house, we would get Chinese food, watch a movie and I would leave.

So, I'm driving over to his house. I had a really strange feeling the whole time, I can't describe it. I knew something bad was going to happen. I finally get to his house, and it's a beat up, old trailer. Whatever, I've lived in a trailer at one point in my life when my mother was struggling financially, so I shouldn't judge, right? He opened the door, and I knew that I had made a mistake. He was at least 40 pounds heavier than what his pictures had showed, and something seemed off about him. Anyway, long story short, we ordered Chinese, rented a couple of movies and started watching them. As we're talking, he tells me that he's killed many people while in the military, and often has thoughts/dreams of killing more people. He also bragged about killing children in Iraq. I was so disgusted, and I don't know why I didn't just leave then. I tried to keep my distance but act as polite as possible. He reached towards me and literally PULLED my hair, and yanked my head back and started kissing my neck. I was like, "We're moving a bit too fast..." We kiss for a minute, he yanks his shirt off and goes for mine. At this point, I'm freaked out and don't know what to do. I give in at first, but then he bit my lip so hard that I literally started bleeding and he bruised the outside of it. He kept growling like a ****ing animal, and I knew that I had to get out of there. I asked him to stop, but he wouldn't at first. At this point, the movie was over and I told him that I had to leave and be up early the next day. As I went to leave, he threw me against the wall and put his hands by my face and said, "You're mine now."

I sped home, and blocked his Facebook and number as soon as I got to my car. He kept trying to message me on the dating site, so I deleted my profile. It was a really scary experience. Definitely the worst date I've had.

Katy Perry

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Originally posted by ManDown

I've had so many! Some of them aren't ATRL appropriate.

I'd say the worst was last year. It was February, and I had finally bought my own car. I was excited because I could finally go on real dates now, rather than having people pick me up or having somebody drop me off to meet somebody. I was on a dating site at the time, and this guy started messaging me. He was attractive; not extremely handsome, but who cares? He could have a good personality and heart. He was in the military for several years, and had done several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (he didn't disclose the Afghanistan/Iraq part in his profile, I found out when we met). He wasn't very old either, 27 if I remember correctly. Anyway, he said all of the right things and eventually I gave in to his requests to meet. The plan was for me to go over to his house, we would get Chinese food, watch a movie and I would leave.

So, I'm driving over to his house. I had a really strange feeling the whole time, I can't describe it. I knew something bad was going to happen. I finally get to his house, and it's a beat up, old trailer. Whatever, I've lived in a trailer at one point in my life when my mother was struggling financially, so I shouldn't judge, right? He opened the door, and I knew that I had made a mistake. He was at least 40 pounds heavier than what his pictures had showed, and something seemed off about him. Anyway, long story short, we ordered Chinese, rented a couple of movies and started watching them. As we're talking, he tells me that he's killed many people while in the military, and often has thoughts/dreams of killing more people. He also bragged about killing children in Iraq. I was so disgusted, and I don't know why I didn't just leave then. I tried to keep my distance but act as polite as possible. He reached towards me and literally PULLED my hair, and yanked my head back and started kissing my neck. I was like, "We're moving a bit too fast..." We kiss for a minute, he yanks his shirt off and goes for mine. At this point, I'm freaked out and don't know what to do. I give in at first, but then he bit my lip so hard that I literally started bleeding and he bruised the outside of it. He kept growling like a ****ing animal, and I knew that I had to get out of there. I asked him to stop, but he wouldn't at first. At this point, the movie was over and I told him that I had to leave and be up early the next day. As I went to leave, he threw me against the wall and put his hands by my face and said, "You're mine now."

I sped home, and blocked his Facebook and number as soon as I got to my car. He kept trying to message me on the dating site, so I deleted my profile. It was a really scary experience. Definitely the worst date I've had.

Omfg.

Cardinal_Luis

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Originally posted by ManDown

I've had so many! Some of them aren't ATRL appropriate.

I'd say the worst was last year. It was February, and I had finally bought my own car. I was excited because I could finally go on real dates now, rather than having people pick me up or having somebody drop me off to meet somebody. I was on a dating site at the time, and this guy started messaging me. He was attractive; not extremely handsome, but who cares? He could have a good personality and heart. He was in the military for several years, and had done several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (he didn't disclose the Afghanistan/Iraq part in his profile, I found out when we met). He wasn't very old either, 27 if I remember correctly. Anyway, he said all of the right things and eventually I gave in to his requests to meet. The plan was for me to go over to his house, we would get Chinese food, watch a movie and I would leave.

So, I'm driving over to his house. I had a really strange feeling the whole time, I can't describe it. I knew something bad was going to happen. I finally get to his house, and it's a beat up, old trailer. Whatever, I've lived in a trailer at one point in my life when my mother was struggling financially, so I shouldn't judge, right? He opened the door, and I knew that I had made a mistake. He was at least 40 pounds heavier than what his pictures had showed, and something seemed off about him. Anyway, long story short, we ordered Chinese, rented a couple of movies and started watching them. As we're talking, he tells me that he's killed many people while in the military, and often has thoughts/dreams of killing more people. He also bragged about killing children in Iraq. I was so disgusted, and I don't know why I didn't just leave then. I tried to keep my distance but act as polite as possible. He reached towards me and literally PULLED my hair, and yanked my head back and started kissing my neck. I was like, "We're moving a bit too fast..." We kiss for a minute, he yanks his shirt off and goes for mine. At this point, I'm freaked out and don't know what to do. I give in at first, but then he bit my lip so hard that I literally started bleeding and he bruised the outside of it. He kept growling like a ****ing animal, and I knew that I had to get out of there. I asked him to stop, but he wouldn't at first. At this point, the movie was over and I told him that I had to leave and be up early the next day. As I went to leave, he threw me against the wall and put his hands by my face and said, "You're mine now."

I sped home, and blocked his Facebook and number as soon as I got to my car. He kept trying to message me on the dating site, so I deleted my profile. It was a really scary experience. Definitely the worst date I've had.

Dude... once you saw that he didn't look how he looked in the profile pic. you shoulda turned arouuuuunnnd

fu*k that omg

EdwardB

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Originally posted by ManDown

I've had so many! Some of them aren't ATRL appropriate.

I'd say the worst was last year. It was February, and I had finally bought my own car. I was excited because I could finally go on real dates now, rather than having people pick me up or having somebody drop me off to meet somebody. I was on a dating site at the time, and this guy started messaging me. He was attractive; not extremely handsome, but who cares? He could have a good personality and heart. He was in the military for several years, and had done several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (he didn't disclose the Afghanistan/Iraq part in his profile, I found out when we met). He wasn't very old either, 27 if I remember correctly. Anyway, he said all of the right things and eventually I gave in to his requests to meet. The plan was for me to go over to his house, we would get Chinese food, watch a movie and I would leave.

So, I'm driving over to his house. I had a really strange feeling the whole time, I can't describe it. I knew something bad was going to happen. I finally get to his house, and it's a beat up, old trailer. Whatever, I've lived in a trailer at one point in my life when my mother was struggling financially, so I shouldn't judge, right? He opened the door, and I knew that I had made a mistake. He was at least 40 pounds heavier than what his pictures had showed, and something seemed off about him. Anyway, long story short, we ordered Chinese, rented a couple of movies and started watching them. As we're talking, he tells me that he's killed many people while in the military, and often has thoughts/dreams of killing more people. He also bragged about killing children in Iraq. I was so disgusted, and I don't know why I didn't just leave then. I tried to keep my distance but act as polite as possible. He reached towards me and literally PULLED my hair, and yanked my head back and started kissing my neck. I was like, "We're moving a bit too fast..." We kiss for a minute, he yanks his shirt off and goes for mine. At this point, I'm freaked out and don't know what to do. I give in at first, but then he bit my lip so hard that I literally started bleeding and he bruised the outside of it. He kept growling like a ****ing animal, and I knew that I had to get out of there. I asked him to stop, but he wouldn't at first. At this point, the movie was over and I told him that I had to leave and be up early the next day. As I went to leave, he threw me against the wall and put his hands by my face and said, "You're mine now."

I sped home, and blocked his Facebook and number as soon as I got to my car. He kept trying to message me on the dating site, so I deleted my profile. It was a really scary experience. Definitely the worst date I've had.

some people are crazy.

Vato

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Originally posted by ManDown

I've had so many! Some of them aren't ATRL appropriate.

I'd say the worst was last year. It was February, and I had finally bought my own car. I was excited because I could finally go on real dates now, rather than having people pick me up or having somebody drop me off to meet somebody. I was on a dating site at the time, and this guy started messaging me. He was attractive; not extremely handsome, but who cares? He could have a good personality and heart. He was in the military for several years, and had done several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (he didn't disclose the Afghanistan/Iraq part in his profile, I found out when we met). He wasn't very old either, 27 if I remember correctly. Anyway, he said all of the right things and eventually I gave in to his requests to meet. The plan was for me to go over to his house, we would get Chinese food, watch a movie and I would leave.

So, I'm driving over to his house. I had a really strange feeling the whole time, I can't describe it. I knew something bad was going to happen. I finally get to his house, and it's a beat up, old trailer. Whatever, I've lived in a trailer at one point in my life when my mother was struggling financially, so I shouldn't judge, right? He opened the door, and I knew that I had made a mistake. He was at least 40 pounds heavier than what his pictures had showed, and something seemed off about him. Anyway, long story short, we ordered Chinese, rented a couple of movies and started watching them. As we're talking, he tells me that he's killed many people while in the military, and often has thoughts/dreams of killing more people. He also bragged about killing children in Iraq. I was so disgusted, and I don't know why I didn't just leave then. I tried to keep my distance but act as polite as possible. He reached towards me and literally PULLED my hair, and yanked my head back and started kissing my neck. I was like, "We're moving a bit too fast..." We kiss for a minute, he yanks his shirt off and goes for mine. At this point, I'm freaked out and don't know what to do. I give in at first, but then he bit my lip so hard that I literally started bleeding and he bruised the outside of it. He kept growling like a ****ing animal, and I knew that I had to get out of there. I asked him to stop, but he wouldn't at first. At this point, the movie was over and I told him that I had to leave and be up early the next day. As I went to leave, he threw me against the wall and put his hands by my face and said, "You're mine now."

I sped home, and blocked his Facebook and number as soon as I got to my car. He kept trying to message me on the dating site, so I deleted my profile. It was a really scary experience. Definitely the worst date I've had.

glad you made it out of that mess.

I've never had really horrible dates. Basically just guys that wouldn't stop talking about themselves or guys that would only say "yes" and "no" during the entire date, stuff like that. The worst was probably last year around September: it was a guy from a dating site that I was meeting for the first time. The date itself was great but he kept saying he wanted to ****ing move in with me

I thought it was some joke that I was just not getting, but at the end he grabbed me and said "I cannot stand my parents, I really need you to ask me to move in with you". Remember this was a first date so

Anubis

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Originally posted by ManDown

I've had so many! Some of them aren't ATRL appropriate.

I'd say the worst was last year. It was February, and I had finally bought my own car. I was excited because I could finally go on real dates now, rather than having people pick me up or having somebody drop me off to meet somebody. I was on a dating site at the time, and this guy started messaging me. He was attractive; not extremely handsome, but who cares? He could have a good personality and heart. He was in the military for several years, and had done several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (he didn't disclose the Afghanistan/Iraq part in his profile, I found out when we met). He wasn't very old either, 27 if I remember correctly. Anyway, he said all of the right things and eventually I gave in to his requests to meet. The plan was for me to go over to his house, we would get Chinese food, watch a movie and I would leave.

So, I'm driving over to his house. I had a really strange feeling the whole time, I can't describe it. I knew something bad was going to happen. I finally get to his house, and it's a beat up, old trailer. Whatever, I've lived in a trailer at one point in my life when my mother was struggling financially, so I shouldn't judge, right? He opened the door, and I knew that I had made a mistake. He was at least 40 pounds heavier than what his pictures had showed, and something seemed off about him. Anyway, long story short, we ordered Chinese, rented a couple of movies and started watching them. As we're talking, he tells me that he's killed many people while in the military, and often has thoughts/dreams of killing more people. He also bragged about killing children in Iraq. I was so disgusted, and I don't know why I didn't just leave then. I tried to keep my distance but act as polite as possible. He reached towards me and literally PULLED my hair, and yanked my head back and started kissing my neck. I was like, "We're moving a bit too fast..." We kiss for a minute, he yanks his shirt off and goes for mine. At this point, I'm freaked out and don't know what to do. I give in at first, but then he bit my lip so hard that I literally started bleeding and he bruised the outside of it. He kept growling like a ****ing animal, and I knew that I had to get out of there. I asked him to stop, but he wouldn't at first. At this point, the movie was over and I told him that I had to leave and be up early the next day. As I went to leave, he threw me against the wall and put his hands by my face and said, "You're mine now."

I sped home, and blocked his Facebook and number as soon as I got to my car. He kept trying to message me on the dating site, so I deleted my profile. It was a really scary experience. Definitely the worst date I've had.

I'm sorry that happened to you. Also you seem like a decent person.

Quiqui4eva

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Originally posted by ManDown

I've had so many! Some of them aren't ATRL appropriate.

I'd say the worst was last year. It was February, and I had finally bought my own car. I was excited because I could finally go on real dates now, rather than having people pick me up or having somebody drop me off to meet somebody. I was on a dating site at the time, and this guy started messaging me. He was attractive; not extremely handsome, but who cares? He could have a good personality and heart. He was in the military for several years, and had done several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (he didn't disclose the Afghanistan/Iraq part in his profile, I found out when we met). He wasn't very old either, 27 if I remember correctly. Anyway, he said all of the right things and eventually I gave in to his requests to meet. The plan was for me to go over to his house, we would get Chinese food, watch a movie and I would leave.

So, I'm driving over to his house. I had a really strange feeling the whole time, I can't describe it. I knew something bad was going to happen. I finally get to his house, and it's a beat up, old trailer. Whatever, I've lived in a trailer at one point in my life when my mother was struggling financially, so I shouldn't judge, right? He opened the door, and I knew that I had made a mistake. He was at least 40 pounds heavier than what his pictures had showed, and something seemed off about him. Anyway, long story short, we ordered Chinese, rented a couple of movies and started watching them. As we're talking, he tells me that he's killed many people while in the military, and often has thoughts/dreams of killing more people. He also bragged about killing children in Iraq. I was so disgusted, and I don't know why I didn't just leave then. I tried to keep my distance but act as polite as possible. He reached towards me and literally PULLED my hair, and yanked my head back and started kissing my neck. I was like, "We're moving a bit too fast..." We kiss for a minute, he yanks his shirt off and goes for mine. At this point, I'm freaked out and don't know what to do. I give in at first, but then he bit my lip so hard that I literally started bleeding and he bruised the outside of it. He kept growling like a ****ing animal, and I knew that I had to get out of there. I asked him to stop, but he wouldn't at first. At this point, the movie was over and I told him that I had to leave and be up early the next day. As I went to leave, he threw me against the wall and put his hands by my face and said, "You're mine now."

I sped home, and blocked his Facebook and number as soon as I got to my car. He kept trying to message me on the dating site, so I deleted my profile. It was a really scary experience. Definitely the worst date I've had.

Damn

I'm so sorry! I'm never getting an account for any dating site

nills

Ok so this isn't a date but it was after a date I had with a guy, he worked at a really nice movie theater and he was a server. I agreed to meet him there to watch a movie with friends while he worked and just casually chat while the movie played. I found out that he had a boyfriend through our chatting.. The boyfriend was also a server at the theater. He was in the same theater we were in as a server.. And he was staring at us. I felt so uncomfortable I excused myself to go to the restroom and when I walked back in I accidentally slammed the door on his boyfriend and he gave me the angriest stare but I don't think it was from the door accident. The guy I had gone on a date with told me he told his boyfriend that we were old high school friends.

You would think I would just stop contact with him, right? Wrong. We def had sex, he was too freaking hot to pass up lmao.

But after that I never called him again, he lived with his boyfriend ffs

Rafael.

A date that lasted like 30 minutes because the guy had disgusting political views and I left after pointing that out.

MLover

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Originally posted by EdwardB

Last year.I met this guy during class,he sat next to me and we were equally bored so we started joking and he seemed to be pretty funny.He gave me his number and a couple of days later we decided to go out for a drink.
Well,it was awkward.He started talking about bee-jays (in public) and he kept saying he really wished he had a penis in his mouth and stuff like that.
I'm usually ok with any kind of jokes or humour,but that was too much..people were staring at us!
I paid and I went home.No bj for me that night.

Gurl you should have asked him for a BJ right then

Bey_Rihstan

Um, my very first date was with this egotistical football player trying to get the V, & I was like um no these goodies stay in the jar

I might elaborate later.

MLover

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Originally posted by ManDown

I've had so many! Some of them aren't ATRL appropriate.

I'd say the worst was last year. It was February, and I had finally bought my own car. I was excited because I could finally go on real dates now, rather than having people pick me up or having somebody drop me off to meet somebody. I was on a dating site at the time, and this guy started messaging me. He was attractive; not extremely handsome, but who cares? He could have a good personality and heart. He was in the military for several years, and had done several tours in Iraq and Afghanistan (he didn't disclose the Afghanistan/Iraq part in his profile, I found out when we met). He wasn't very old either, 27 if I remember correctly. Anyway, he said all of the right things and eventually I gave in to his requests to meet. The plan was for me to go over to his house, we would get Chinese food, watch a movie and I would leave.

So, I'm driving over to his house. I had a really strange feeling the whole time, I can't describe it. I knew something bad was going to happen. I finally get to his house, and it's a beat up, old trailer. Whatever, I've lived in a trailer at one point in my life when my mother was struggling financially, so I shouldn't judge, right? He opened the door, and I knew that I had made a mistake. He was at least 40 pounds heavier than what his pictures had showed, and something seemed off about him. Anyway, long story short, we ordered Chinese, rented a couple of movies and started watching them. As we're talking, he tells me that he's killed many people while in the military, and often has thoughts/dreams of killing more people. He also bragged about killing children in Iraq. I was so disgusted, and I don't know why I didn't just leave then. I tried to keep my distance but act as polite as possible. He reached towards me and literally PULLED my hair, and yanked my head back and started kissing my neck. I was like, "We're moving a bit too fast..." We kiss for a minute, he yanks his shirt off and goes for mine. At this point, I'm freaked out and don't know what to do. I give in at first, but then he bit my lip so hard that I literally started bleeding and he bruised the outside of it. He kept growling like a ****ing animal, and I knew that I had to get out of there. I asked him to stop, but he wouldn't at first. At this point, the movie was over and I told him that I had to leave and be up early the next day. As I went to leave, he threw me against the wall and put his hands by my face and said, "You're mine now."

I sped home, and blocked his Facebook and number as soon as I got to my car. He kept trying to message me on the dating site, so I deleted my profile. It was a really scary experience. Definitely the worst date I've had.

Omg glad you're okay! That was scary as ****.

BrittRihanna134

The last crazy one I had was on Valentine's. The guy was like "I already told my family about you. They expect you to be at my birthday party tomorrow." Then he kept telling me I was going to spend the night at his house. Like it wasn't a request. I just said I have to leave now and started walking to my car. He followed me. I got in quickly and drove off. Then I blocked him on my phone. But he sent me messages daily on the dating website. The last one said something like don't miss out on a Good man God sent. Blocked him on the website.