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Eglė
Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Sexuality: can you choose it?
Is it possible to choose a sexuality? Or you just born being straight/gay/bi/etc?
This is inspired by Honesty Icon Jessie J's statement.
BionicLotus
Member Since: 1/7/2014
Posts: 613
Post #2
no. but I don't buy the born this way theory either
EdwardB
Member Since: 4/4/2014
Posts: 4,496
Post #3
Good for her if she can.
I surely cannot.
Starburst
Member Since: 3/25/2012
Posts: 10,076
Post #4
Don't we all choose which sexuality we consider ourselves? Based on our preferences?
It's not a "choice" so to speak but we do choose a sexual identity.
Elec†ricJudas
Member Since: 8/28/2011
Posts: 1,772
Post #5
No. Why would someone consciously choose to be discriminated?
Whiskey Mouth
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 8,244
Post #6
No, I never chose I wanted to be gay. I just like boys.
Cain
Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 21,558
Post #7
Quote:
Originally posted by
EdwardB
Good for her if she can.
I surely cannot.
This, I don't really give a **** if others say they can/can't whatever, I like boys and boys only and I don't remember chosing for it.
BadBitches
Member Since: 6/30/2012
Posts: 19,226
Post #8
Nope.
POPTART
Member Since: 4/3/2014
Posts: 399
Post #9
No,baby you're born that way
seanoh
Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 6,868
Post #10
You can choose what you identify as, but not what you actually are if you get what I'm saying
Sombra
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Member Since: 7/22/2012
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Post #11
No
DianaDolls
Member Since: 4/4/2014
Posts: 1,124
Post #12
how is that possible? you're attracted to what you're attracted to
Latch
Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 11,808
Post #13
No, it's not like a pair of socks you put on in the morning
It is what it is
Latch
Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 11,808
Post #14
Quote:
Originally posted by
seanoh
You can choose what you identify as, but not what you actually are if you get what I'm saying
Precisely
You can't choose what you
like
,
you just choose what you sleep with
22 Two's
Member Since: 2/2/2014
Posts: 13,171
Post #15
it's a choice at some point.
Miichael
Member Since: 12/3/2010
Posts: 14,971
Post #16
No. The only choice you have is to live your live honestly and be open, or lie to yourself and others and feel empty inside.
SpinThatShhh
Banned
Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 24,153
Post #17
Yes.
Sorry, eeerbody a little gay and a little straight.
Some people just are brave enough to go for what they want.
dcode78
Member Since: 9/5/2011
Posts: 9,174
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slimmaz
Member Since: 10/4/2011
Posts: 2,331
Post #19
Sexuality is fluid. You don't choose who or what you're attracted to, but it is not necessarily constant it can change.
Embustera
Member Since: 5/10/2011
Posts: 4,200
Post #20
Yes. It is a choice.
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