BDSM is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves as practicing BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community and/or subculture is usually dependent on self-identification and shared experience. Interest in BDSM can range from one-time experimentation to a lifestyle, and there is debate over whether a BDSM or kink sexual identity also constitutes a form of sexual orientation.
Practices of BDSM survive from some of the oldest textual records in the world, associated with rituals to the Goddess Inanna (Ishtar in Akkadian). :eek Academic historian and archaeologist Anne O Nomis has undertaken research revealing cuneiform texts dedicated to Inanna which incorporate domination rituals. In particular she points to ancient writings such as Inanna and Ebih (in which the Goddess dominates Ebih), and Hymn to Inanna describing cross-dressing transformations and rituals "imbued with pain and ecstasy, bringing about initation and journeys of altered states of consciousness; punishment, moaning, ecstasy, lament and song, participants exhausting themselves in weeping and grief."
Some people believe it's necessary to maintain the flame in a relationship. I know that's weird but what do you think about BDSM, especially if you have ever tried it or do it regularly? Rihanna has already told us quite a lot about the subject in the lyrics video I posted above.
To some extent it's hot
Spanking, light slapping, name calling, holding down, hair pulling and scratching are fine with me, anything more extreme than that seems like too much.
Not into it but there's a certain interest in it, definitely. It's sort of dark and demented in a way, but also a testament on how far you'll go for pleasure. I mean... whips and chains, pain, bondage?? Like...
BUT I have tried handcuffs recently with this boy. The fact that I had full control over him turned me on, but inflicting pain from something in my hand isn't my thing.
I don't like hardcore S&M stuff that makes you puke, but the vanilla stuff; being tied until I cant move, spanked badly on the ass, being called offensive names, having my hair pulled bad, being roughened up badly, and having someone take charge of me, by being rude, arrogant , and cocky to me , but only in the bedroom department, not relationship wise. I haven't had the chance to try it yet, but I'd love to. I'm I fifty shades of Gay a lot ?
I don't like hardcore S&M stuff, but the vanilla stuff; tied until I cant move, spanked badly, called offensive names, have my hair pulled bad, roughened up badly, and have someone take charge of me, by rude,arrogant , and cocky to me , but only in the bedroom department, not relationship wise. I haven't had the chance to try it yet, but I'd love to.
This. Minus the spanked. never got anything from that. Though a bit of light choking Nothing turn purple or anything but. Also when I see them get physically picked up by the other guy in videos.
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Nothing turn purple or anything but. Also when I see them get physically picked up by the other guy in videos. 
